white guys act strange if interested in black girls?

First of all...he may not be interested.
Secondly, this is 2011...take his damn number and call him.

I'm so glad you posted this because I have a VERY similar situation (except both of us are white lol) Personally I don't believe it has anything to do with race. This guy in my school (I never met him) just stared at me for two weeks and always 'happened' to be in the same area I was. I think hes cute and a nice guy but after debating for a while if i should make the first move i decided against it because as modern as we all are, guys want to chase and not be chased. Finally on the very last day of fall semester, he asked me if I want candy (after first offering a few other guys so as not to look too obvious) and from there we had an hr long conversation. He didnt ask me for my number though, instead he friended me on fb a week later. This leads me to believe that he is simply shy and scared of rejection.. In that case me making the first move would be fine..I don't know what to do though, cus I could be wrong and he's totally not interested. And they say girls are tough to figure out =/

go after that guy take matters into ur own hands
after all he's a white guy!!!!(joking)

Maybe he's just shy lol

Wow this was an old question lol

I really think he’s just shy and maybe intimidated by your beauty haha

I think that's a great idea. It seems to me like he's obviously interested but shy. Let us know what happens=)

I said lets exchange numbers..thats why he was giving me his number..he said here take.down mine..i volentered to.exchange them..the thing.is I didnt really take down his..i waa stuck on h should have my number and call me..which nedver hewsppened

I here you ladies but the thing is..i told him take,down my number instead..i never took his down I gave him mine..thats why im thinking to go up to him again and try and vet hos number this time..so I can really talk and see if hes interested or not..i hope this is a good idea

Yeah I definitely agree w sweetsherry guys dont stare so obviously unless they're interested especially since he gave u his number why don't you try friending or messaging him on fb if he doesn't respond u know you misread it.

I think he likes you or why would he give you his number hmmmmm either he's shy about asking out a black girl or he's just shy and awkward

My situation feels way worse..he never asked for my number..but said hey take down mines..i dont know girl..these men are confusing ..i get over it then I see him and feel confused avain..we talked but it was like he was scared..his comfort zone is just starring thats it..uh this is bs..im making sense out of nonsense now

The way I see it you have 2 choices, approach him and ask for his number, or ask if he fancies going out for lunch/ hooking up or whatever, or just ignore him and put it down to experience. If you do approach him and he brushes you off at least you know either way and you haven't lost anything.

I would say it's possible he's shy.

If you want someone don't wait for him to take the first move. If you do that, another bolder woman may step up and take him.

Yes there are some who think "chasing a man is beneath me" but... sometimes demanding that he does all the work may be the best way to not win him. Many men these days like women who work *with* them.

If you still want him, I'd say ask him out to lunch. It's not "chasing" - it's just a friendly meal.

Of course it could also be that you misread his stares. Who knows?

Here is the link about how white men stare and dont do shit nada nothing...thats my same issue...why dont you tell her grow up or maybe hes not interested..you people are weird..your not normal still trying to digest why I need to be tought a lesson..what I did wrong?

http://isitnormal.com/story/black-girl-white-guy-28394/

Why do I hqve to be tought a lesson..all these negative comments for what are half of you high...

Thankyou to the positive ones..all ghis grow up shit..didnt you people see I talked to him first thats what grown ups do..ya yall high because you missed that..

Im talking about him being white because theres a similiar post on her..where no one complained and talked about race..same topic...

I also feel he may not be interested and maybe he is a staring stanely..it just irritates me..

I dont have his number never took it down only gave him mine..for me to get his number I have to chase him again..

But why do you think a guy whos.not interested stares? Thats tge big question is that normal?

Just call him. Be brave! You will never know unless you do. You'll feel so proud of yourself if you do make the first move!! =] However some people just don't feel comfortable being upfront. The real question is if you're not going to get irritated by his less upfront personality( If it does work out).

So hold on you arent taking any notice of him because he pays attention to you in reality but not in the cyber world?
Grow up maybe he doesnt feel comftorble calling people for no reason other than to just talk did you ever think of that? I do hope he actualy doesnt like you in that way so you get taught a lesson.

Call him. That's the only way to find out why he's hesitant to get to know you better. Don't press the issue, though. Just set up a date!

Call him! Guys can't do it all the time.

If the guy were your own race, what would you do and how would you react? Any different? You keep harping on his color and how you want him... Don't jeopardize your dignity chasing someone who may be staring at you for reasons that have nothing to do with what you think.

He sounds like a "Staring Stanley", in my opinion, and he sounds a bit slow. Move on to a guy who will respond to you in a more demonstrative and mature manner.