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Well there's this guy that I went out with for only about four weeks. We really haven't been acting like we go out, but it was a really weird relationship. He broke up with me just last week saying he doesn't like me anymore. I can understand that. But how I really feel for him deep inside, it's true love I have for him. This isn't just any normal puppy love that other couples have then they break up after several months. This is honest deep love I have for him. I can actually picture myself having a future with him. I'm not trying to force anybody to be with me. That's totally wrong and that's something I would never do. I don't know how he feels about me deep down right now. For the first time I feel like I'm in true true love. Is this normal? Should I feel this way? I don't know how to tell him this. If I do, he might not care what I say and think I'm desperate. What do I do?
Don't be mean to me please. ;-) Thanks!!!

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  • Kat444
    14 years ago

    He doesn't seem to return your feelings. It'll hurt for awhile, but what you're feeling for him is infatuation, not love. True love takes longer to grow. You'll feel this way about other guys, and eventually one of them will be the right one for you.

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  • GreenStranger
    14 years ago

    Do tell him, if he says no, you will be sad for few weeks and you will get over it quicker, if you don't you will might regret passing up the chance for the rest of your life.

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  • generalknowledge
    15 years ago

    is that you mrs domingo?

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  • spyderr
    15 years ago

    wait a bit of time. if you just broke up it might just be that he is still on your mind. if after 2 weeks you still find yourself constantly thinking about this and still feeling this way, then you probably need to approach him and tell him how you feel about the whole thing. then if he feels even remotely the same he will probably be ok with getting back together

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  • starr
    15 years ago

    well it seem like you are screwed please understand that love is hard and that you must veleive life can go on without him.and if you felt this way why did u not talk to him about it?
    please see this as a life lesson and the next time be more open! you should know there are lots of men. sure hes in your heart now but where are u in his?
    try to move on if you dont and it taked time to heal your human and take as much time to heal accept that you made mistakes and you are hurting and i promise itll get better!
    just remember to say i learned from this!

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    If he broke up wit chu then oviously he aint like you dayum he aint love you dont go tellin him u luv him cuz he jus gon say yous a crazy bitch, huney dont be makin a foo of yaself you smarter than that if he brake up wti chu in a few weeks den it aint ment ta be

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  • Addictprincess
    15 years ago

    It isn't love. I've had that feeling. I thouht I ws "IN LOVE" but I wasn't I just said I was. You will get over him in a few weeks and find someone else.

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  • penis91
    15 years ago

    Don't worry, you have plenty of time to find someone else.
    and who knows, he might end up getting back together with you?
    You'll be fine in the long run.

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  • mikas
    15 years ago

    Rape him.

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  • Havoc
    16 years ago

    love is too complex an emotion to feel for someone after only 4 weeks, unless ure into that "love at first sight" shit

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  • [Old Memory]
    16 years ago

    If thats not puppy love what is youve known him for 4 weeks dont be so stupid you cannot know what hes like to see a future grow up

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  • [Old Memory]
    16 years ago

    You cant force anybody to be with you.I realize you have deep feeling for him,but he must not feel the same or he would not of broke up with you.I feel for you hun but i think you could be headed for more hurt if you pursue this.but if you broke up over some stupid reason you guys can probably resolve the problem.take care girl.

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