(straightmenonly) what is the biggest deal-breaker in a relationship?

Basically out of all the options available, which is the biggest turn-off? Which one would really make you think twice about getting into a relationship with a woman?

Rude and Obnoxious 30
Flat Chest 1
Doesn't Want Children 7
Flat Arse 3
Bossy and Controlling 24
Won't Participate In Oral Sex 5
Bad Personal Hygiene 36
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  • nobodyspecial

    Bad personal hygiene - dont like a dirty smelly girl
    Rude & obnoxious -
    Bossy & controlling -

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    • anti-hero

      Indeed.

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  • Frosties

    I've been with people having all these traits (not all in the same person, of course). I'll overlook most things if I love someone. My own personal deal-breakers are a hatred of animals and ignorance.

    The animals one is the killer. I can't imagine the idea of being with someone and knowing we'll never have little furries. Worse, that they don't like little furries. What kind of person doesn't like little furries?

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  • shuggy-chan

    This might sound funny coming from me, but immaturity. And i dont mean immaturity like she has to be all serious or adult, but immaturity, like if she consistently make selfish and self destructive choices

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  • Bad hygiene is disgusting, thats a no brainer and shouldnt even be an option. Bossy and controlling would be my choice, rude and obnoxious is right there with it.

    Someone else said cant/wont cook and I have to second that, more and more women dont seem to think cooking is important at all for some reason.

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  • Shackleford96

    I will say these from the ones you listed:

    Bad Personal Hygiene
    Won't Participate In Oral Sex
    Bossy and Controlling
    Rude and Obnoxious

    Manipulative (one that you didn't include)

    All the others I could probably deal with.

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  • nightmare28

    From the list, I would say rude and obnoxious, I always believed that pretty is as pretty does.
    Outside the list I would say can't/wont cook.

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  • Bossy and Controlling is what I cant stand the most.
    Hygiene is very important too as well as participating in oral sex.
    I can overlook not having perfect looks and I dont want kids either, but if it happened by accident i could except that.
    Everything else on the list is necessary for me though.
    Some other things I have to add to my list of no's is
    laziness
    self-destructiveness
    lack of ambition
    boringness

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  • keeping_up_with_da_kids

    My turn off is over weight! And whore!

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  • anti-hero

    Three-way tie between Bad Personal Hygiene, Rude and Obnoxious, and Bossy and Controlling.

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  • GuessWho

    The following, and in this order:
    1. Bad Personal Hygiene
    2. Bossy and Controlling
    3. Rude and Obnoxious
    4. Doesn't Want Children

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  • gncp

    Ill go wid the b0ssy nd c0ntr0ling.
    Men sh0uld lead the relati0nshp.
    We r b0rn 2 be a leadr nd n0t 2 be a f0ll0wr.

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    • anti-hero

      Cover your balls, women can see this. They will be kicked.

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      • gncp

        o my! that cant be... i have a pants made of g0ld.. :D

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        • anti-hero

          Good job.

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  • PalestinianGuy

    I think the "Doesn't want children" will get the highest priority, because men from an evolutionary stand point want to spread their seed, and considering that I'll only have one mate in my life, not allowing me to have children is a deal breaker, unless she won't mind polygamy :D

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  • Anime7

    Out of the ones that you listed I'll go with:

    Bossy and Controlling
    Rude and Obnoxious
    Bad personal hygiene
    Won't participate in Oral sex (sorry but it's true)

    Upon reading the comments, I've realized that my list is the same as Shackleford's.

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