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I had coffee with a guy I met online. He likes me and wants to see me again, but I am not very interested. He seems like a nice guy.... Bunk just don't see any future ....
I feel very awkward and am not sure what to say and how to say it. How do I make it as painless as possible?
What is wrong with me? :(
You cannot help it if you aren't attracted to him. The main thing is don't lead him on, tell him straight, that you aren't really feeling it and youre sorry but it was nice to meet you anyway :) and I hope you find what you're looking for!
something like that
Tell him you enjoyed the outing, he seems like a nice guy but unfortunately he's not what you're looking for.
Don't give him specific reasons. Basically be honest, polite & don't say more than you have to.
one time when i got out of a bad relationship, i tried moving on a little too soon, when i met this other woman we did things, mostly kissing, later on she left and texted me how she felt about me, i wasn't her type, but she thought i was nice. we became good friends though, we are even still good friends. but it will never be anything more than that. being i was in a bad relationship before i met her, it was still too soon. i came off as submissive. too innocent for her. but i respected her honesty. now if she kept leading me on despite thinking that about me and finally saying something down the road, i'd be upset for having my time wasted on something false from the beginning. i don't like my emotions being toyed with. so just tell this guy the truth.
if he has a problem with it well its not your fault how he reacts. you never know, just because he seems like a nice guy doesn't mean that he is, or even if he really is, nice guys do know how to be cool about things and move on.
Is it normal that all of these posts about online dating are making me feel less nervous about trying online dating? Thanks for that, OP.
But seriously, if you think he's not the one, then politely tell him what you just wrote in your post.