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I tend to obsess over men alot. If they don't like me I won't stop thinking about them and why they don't like me..
'between love and madness lies obsession.'
To all the girls out there - Is this normal?
You are asking girls - but - its normal for many to go through a boy crazy period when younger. And its normal to want to be liked by attractive to the opposite (or same) sex. But your obsessing sounds beyond that.
Is there anyway you ca work through why you think their approval is so critical - when in reality - its just not?
you must be very good looking if you care what men think about you. If you don't get the attention you expect you kinda freak, huh? This all lies with you! You cannot think you are God's gift to men. You have to realize that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and not every man looks for the same thing in a woman. Don't even take time to think about it! I mean, seriously! There's more important things to do in life than go back to a grade school mentality and care what so and so thinks about you. Give me a break girl. Rise above! Plus, men like the chase, too.
flikr is probably very immature in public, so that's why he struggles with females.
I spend some of my time wondering if a guy is noticing me, and usually I'll find a guy I'm interested in and daydream about him, but half the time they aren't interested enough or interested in only sex. So I just give up on it, you should try finding a guy who is interested in you the way you are interested in them.
Well it is not normal to me. Can't you get over it and get on with your life. It such a wast of time to obsess somebody who don't even look at you.
i obsess over like 3 girls that i really like, i am realllllllllly obsessed with them, i think about them probably 100%% of the time