my dad gets erections around me
I noticed this about 1 years ago I was wearing a dress and my dad hugged me and he touche'd my butt I was like "heyyyy" and pushed him off like wtf and he was like sorry I never told my mom till he kissed my neck and that's when I toldY mom and she's talked to my dad about it saying that's wrong and to stop but I've never told her that my dad hugs me for a long period of time but he makes it seem like it a normal fatherly thing but sometimes or more than often he gets an erection and it's sooo uncomfortable and awkward I act lIke I don't notice but last night I just couldn't keep pretending it doesn't happen so how do i tell my mom about it with out it sounding like he's abusing me he's gonna say I'm over reacting and that I'm crazY and I'm gonna have to tell her about a time when I was kneeling over my bed and my dad hugged me form behing and he got up bUT his legs where spread apart like he was taking me from behind and he got an erection to and he was also moving super slow back and forth but it was like a year ago and I feel like if I bring it up he'll just definitely get mad and say that never happened and I'm crazy...etc. should i even bring it up? but what do I tell my mom he's never sexually abused me he just stares at me and gets erections that I can feel when he hugs me