"it's complicated"

I know of a guy who is aggnorant and proud. He talks bad behind my back, treats me like a creep, avoids me and never talks to me. It's because he thinks that I am just a creepy animefreak girl that is obbsessed with him. It all happened years ago when I was just an airhead and thought I 'loved him' cause others said it was 'love' if I liked him. But I didn't know that I just liked him as a friend. People began to tease me and him and he treated me differently. He became proud and aggnorant as years pass by, he talks about me being a strange weird animefreak stalker that is obbsessed with him. To be honest, I don't even like him. And when I try to tell him, he misunderstands my attempts as love confessions and avoids me more. What should I do? Is this normal? I feel sad that he avoids me. But sometimes I catch him staring at me.

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Based on 15 votes (8 yes)
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Comments ( 27 )
  • Sog

    Wait... so you love him, but he makes fun of you, but you don't really love him, so he ignores you, and now you want to get his attention?

    *confused*

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    • NO i don't want his attention. I just want to get rid of his existence. Sorry if you're really that confused.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Hate to break it to you, but you're powerless over his existence.

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  • charli.m

    If you don't even like him, then just move on. Let him mean nothing to you and have no hold over you.

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    • shuggy-chan

      This ^^^ just brush that dirt off your shoulder

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      • thank you

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  • handsignals

    OP's a Japanese schoolgirl, guy she's talking about...tenticle monster.

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    • no tentacle rape issue here pls xD

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  • EccentricWeird

    Agnorrant sounds like a D&D monster. Cool.

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    • hahaha xD

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  • thegypsysailor

    Why do you care? Stay away from him. "To be honest, I don't even like him" so stay away from him. I don't get it; do you share a prison cell with him? Stay way.
    What could be easier???

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    • his friends are basically my friends and they talk about him almost all the time. They think I like him and talk about me to him. well anyways thanks for advice. I HAVE been trying to get his existence out of my life.

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  • plainsight90

    you are a freak of nature that someone else will appreciate.

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    • THANK YOU. YOU MADE MY DAY. :D

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  • If you have no interest in him, why are you persuing him?

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    • I'm not. His existence disgusts me and when i try to get on good terms with him just to avoid having enemies, he treats me like a freak. so i'm ignoring him. :/

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      • Well, ignoring him the best idea. Not being friends doesn't mean they are your enemy.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    He only acts like that because you're probably the only woman who has ever had any interest in his D. It'll be a lot easier to convince people that you don't care about him if your response to bringing him up is "yeah whatever fuck him" and moving on. Fervent denial always makes you look more guilty.

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    • THANK YOU

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  • DubstepismyMJ

    Why do you care so much? You dont like him, he's full of himself, he is very rude to you and treats you so poorly.

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    • idk but he's like a total hypocrite. He treats others nicely and treats nerds and geeks like trash. I have been back stabbed by him and i want to forget him.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    Forget about him and move on. You don't need someone that acts like an elementary school child.

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    • thanks :)

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  • Shackleford96

    "aggnorant"

    Are you trying to say ignorant?

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    • Jeaneathean

      Arrogant and ignorant?

      It's a great new word. I, for one, will start using it immediately.

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      • Shackleford96

        Ha, this made me chuckle :)

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        • haha i mispelled it xD sorryyy

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