"it is about my bf i really want to know whats wrong ?"

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I am having a long distance relationship since 3 years.My bf and I live in separate countries.We have met 2 years ago and he is coming to visit me after two months.The most important thing is that I love him alot and i am very serious about our relationship.Recently we are having some problems like today he told me that he will be going to a party but he also said that he would call me.I thought he was just going to call me then.So I waited for like 3 hours after
that my mood was completely off.Then he called me when he returned home then he came to know that i was crying and also i got angry on him.But then i told him that i was missing him and also asked him if he was also then he said no.I was really hurted after hearing that because it has been many days since we are fighting he never likes to say
that he misses me.Then he hanged up phone and i am crying again.I dont know whats this has he fed up of saying miss you or he really doesnt miss me.*Please I dont want answers saying that he doesnt love. me .I know he loves me but just want to know that what kind of behaviour is this.Is it normal*
that he misses me that

then.So I waited almost 3 hours then my mood completely

Is it a bad time that will get over soon 6
Will it create problems in our future 5
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  • TareBear20
    9 years ago

    Stop chasing after someone who is thousands of miles away. Long distance usually never works and is always the most heartache, because it is purely an emotional connection.

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    You need to discuss this with your boyfriend.

    We don't know you or your boyfriend, we don't know what he's thinking or how he's feeling, we just know a very small portion of your side of the story.

    So I don't think we can help you. Speak to him.

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  • poon_jabber
    9 years ago

    I agree with Tare. open your mf'n eyes! Long distance? for 3 years?!? wow you're dumb. HE'S CHEATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • mystery7
    9 years ago

    Take it from me, LDRs almost never work long term (e,g, 3 years) unless there's a clear end in sight. Unless you both agree that one of you moves to be with the other it won't work out.

    Failing that, move on with your life.

    I won't sugar coat it. Get real. From what you describe, I can say with 99% certainty he's cheating on you.

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