"is it normal to feel like this?"

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years, last week (Sunday) we decided to have sex, using a condom of course. But half way through he told me it came off and because he thrusted before noticing he pushed it inside me, after we removed it we did not continue. It was now (Sunday) the next week and Ive been getting bloated quite alot and been cramping up pretty badly, when we had sex I was ovulating, so that's why Im worried. I have never been like this after ovulation. Is this normal or should I take a pregnancy test?

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  • TareBear20
    9 years ago

    I'd say take a test just to be sure, but don't panic.

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    • Perryberry18
      9 years ago

      Trying not too, just really worried because he's been freaking out alot and that's making me feel worse.

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      • TareBear20
        9 years ago

        I know that life all too well. I get yelled at, at a day by day basis. :/
        Ignore him and if it persists, dump him.
        Don't make the same mistake that I am making and stay, because of what once was..

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        • Perryberry18
          9 years ago

          Hes not yelling at me & stuff. He just freaks out because he doesnt want a baby right now.

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          • TareBear20
            9 years ago

            Then wtf are you complaining about? Stop bitching over nothing. Typical females.

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        • bfus
          9 years ago

          I'm a guy and it scares the hell out of me every time a girlfriend utters the words "I think I might be pregnant..." so I can identify with the freaking out feeling...

          Having said that, I totally agree with you and would dump them on the spot if I were a girl in that situation.

          The normal thing to do is buy your girlfriend a pregnancy test, and when it is negative have awesome celebratory sex )

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          • TareBear20
            9 years ago

            I am not a stupid female that has had a pregnancy scare. Safe sex is not difficult.

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            • Perryberry18
              9 years ago

              Oh of course safe sex is easy that was the point of using a condom. Doesnt help when theres a little too much pre cum inside that it slips and slides. Being in doggy style didnt help either due to the muscles in the vagina basicly sucking the condom in as it slides.
              Logic.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    You must retrieve the condom of it is still in there. It doesn't belong in there and could possibly contribute symptoms. Get a doctor to remove it if you can't do so. You will also need to get a pregnancy test.

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    • Perryberry18
      9 years ago

      We removed it of course, Im glad I saw my Gp. Got a negetive pregnancy test, with all this pain Ive been having my gp has booked me in for a bowel cancer test. Since I have 90% chance in my female relitives. But thankyou so much to everyone who gave advice I truely appricate it :(

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      • Avant-Garde
        9 years ago

        You're welcome and good luck.

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  • richmanjoe
    9 years ago

    It may be a little early, mommy.

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  • poon_jabber
    9 years ago

    you could have used plan B but now it might b too late

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  • bfus
    9 years ago

    Take a pregnancy test, it can't hurt. Also, condoms are not the greatest birth control - have you considered getting an IUD or something? IUDs are super effective and last 5 years unless you decide to have it removed, also they're cheaper than buying condoms in the long run.

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    • Perryberry18
      9 years ago

      Im on the Pill aswell.

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      • bfus
        9 years ago

        You might both feel more comfortable if this is a worry with something longer lasting, so you don't have to worry about accidentally forgetting the pill one day... My ex used to use some ring that lasted two months, and she only had 6 periods per year instead of 12! Lots of extra sex time, it was worth it :)

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        • Perryberry18
          9 years ago

          I'll look into that, thanks for your advice I appricate it :)

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