"is it normal that i feel my girlfriend doesn't love me anymore"

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I have been dating a girl for over 4months now when we first started she use to call,text,open conversations on social network chats etc...................
As time streches she hardly calls to know how am doing execpt when she wants to see me,doesn't text anymore I got tired and I called her one day and I told her I was no longer intrested in the relationship so she begged me to give her a second chance that she will change of which I did,now she has started what she promised she would stop doing when I complain to her she start apologising and would still repeat it...................I don't know what to do
Pls I need your advice
THANK YOU

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Based on 47 votes (34 yes)
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  • iEatZombies_
    10 years ago

    She was getting comfortable with you. She started feeling like it was okay for her to have her own life and also have a boyfriend, but you basically just told her it's not. If you keep being clingy she'll either unhappily conform or push you away. It's pretty early on in the relationship- she's acting normal. She calls when she wants to hang out, otherwise she doesn't- nothing wrong here.
    My advice is that you find something to do instead of going crazy by the phone. Enjoy the fact that you miss each other, don't be angry at it.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Haha.

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    After a couple months into a relationship you tend to see the other persons "True colors." All those bad habits etc.. She's probably falling back into her nature of things. She trys to stop for you, but eventually she can only be who she is. If by the end of the couple of months it takes for people to truly start being themselves,you find you can handle the persons quirks, then the relationship will work out. If the quirks drive you crazy and you can't handle them.. well, break up, cause it's not likely something she's going to permanently change

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    Well, you obviously want her to be in touch more than its natural for her to be.

    I struggled in a relationship like that and my ex improved for about a month or two when i told him straight up that he needed to change and put some effort in the relationship.

    I dumped him and it was one of the best decisions ever. You can't force her to need to talk to you as much as you seem to need her.

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  • kitty–k
    10 years ago

    look yes it was normal 4 her to do that she was trying to give you your space you sound like a good bf its ok :)

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  • Sove
    10 years ago

    Who cares? Time to move on to another one then

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  • fukpeople
    10 years ago

    I love the saying- How can I miss you if you wont go away'

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    • dirtybirdy
      10 years ago

      I like "if I shot you when I wanted to, i'd be out by now."

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      • fukpeople
        10 years ago

        That doesn't even make sense

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        • dirtybirdy
          10 years ago

          yes it does.

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          • fukpeople
            10 years ago

            no it doesn't.

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            • dirtybirdy
              10 years ago

              Let's imagine a wife saying it to her husband after many years of marriage. If I shot you (killed you) when I wanted to (a long time ago) i'd be out (of jail) by now. Sheesh.

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