"is it normal that i feel extremely desensitized in relationships?"

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I've actually talked to my brother about this one and he feels the same way, so i just wanted to get a general consensus.

So more recently and it seems increasingly I feel like certain romantic and loving elements of relationships just don't do it for me and even start to annoy me. I actually no longer enjoy kissing or making out with girls anymore. Which is weird cause i remember when I used to enjoy in. I kinda just want my girlfriend to leave me alone, and I have almost no desire to satisfy her needs unless I'm also satisfying my own. I no longer like cuddling/snuggling, and I actually cannot sleep when someone is touching me. And the worst thing is being stared at. I remember times when i was all lovey dovey and didn't mind being gazed at or just looking at my girl, but now if im out with a girl and like after sex she's just staring at me, I wanna punch her in the face (not literally).

Anybody know what happened to me? Why do I like not care for this stuff anymore?

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  • MilleBornes
    11 years ago

    I agree with the first post. We men don't really care to show much emotion anyway. The fact that you're with women who accept that attitude is the "problem".

    That's it. you're normal. If you plan to have a long relationship, however, well...a long happy one, you'll need to tweak a little. She accepts you and you in turn show a little more compassion You'll understand as you mature more and more. Otherwise, unless you're unhappy this is completely normal.

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  • changes123
    11 years ago

    It sounds like you keep getting what you want without a challenge.

    You need to find a partner that can slap some sense into you. (Literally)

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Is it normal that I feel extremely desensitized towards the human condition?

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