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I am a brownish blondish teen and my life is great ecxept that I CANT GET A GIRLFREIND!!! I have done everything to get one I need suggestions and no I am not ugly. Is it normal?
I saw a 300 pound, greasy, ginger guy with a girlfriend. There's hope for you, hell there's hope for anyone after I saw that shit.
I was like that too...but my life improved when I started wearing my underwear under my pants, not over them.
Start a band. Even if you're terrible you'll find some wannabe groupie willing to date you.
Hey! There's a girl in another thread who can't find a boyfriend so you're definitely not alone.
Introspection is one of the best things you can do for yourself. There's a reason why you can't get a girlfriend.
Find it.
Instead of just trying to "get a girlfriend," why not ask a girl out on a date? One date doesn't make her your girlfriend, but maybe you two will go on more dates and then become bf/gf.
do you know how may girls say that about boys? plenty, try and meet someone like that
Saying you have "done everything" is pretty defeatist because obviously you haven't and you have the results to prove it: no girl friend. It also makes it hard to guess what to suggest. But here's a shot: you are a teen. There are all sorts of teen activities. Ask girls out to one until one says yes. Keep doing that until you click with one.
I want a boyfriend but I can't get one! I'm short with a really good figure, olive skinned with dark hair and eyes, and people often tell me I'm gorgeous and ask why I don't do modelling! I think it's because I won't ask out a guy first.
It sucks!!
just act normal, just be yourself dont try to be or act like anyone else be you. people will like you for who you are regardless.
It might be you need to work out or it could be you are too quiet or it could be you are too loud. It could be your interests are too redneck or that you have the wrong haircut. Women are picky in odd ways. Guys can be that way too, but not quite as bad. Your best bet is to find some hobbies that are considered cool, like playing guitar or something. Just try to socialize and don't be too shy. Have something to talk about, but don't hog the whole conversation. You have to participate to be noticed. Any trait one girl doesn't like could be a trait that attracts another if you are confident and approachable.
what do you mean with brownish and blondy? don't try so hard maybe see that and they get scared. it might be the way you are maybe don't know? It ill come when you least expected just be patient and don't let it get to you!
Maybe the stench of desperation is too overwhelming for the ladies? :P
It sounds like you're talking about acquiring an appliance or something. Perhaps you need to broaden your friendship group, interact with plenty of girls, be open and wait until there's chemistry between you and a specific girl before pursuing someone (rather than treating it like dunking for apples). There's no need to rush - if you're so fucking desperate that you'll romance anyone and go with the first girl who's willing you'll probably end up in a shit relationship you'll quickly regret having tangled yourself in.
Some possible reasons you can't get a girlfriend:
- Environment - girls that would be interested in you might be outside of your current social group or situation.
- Personality / Behaviour - perhaps there is something unattractive about your personality or behaviour that is putting girls off, or simply not putting girls 'on'.
I can't get a boyfriend. At all. One will come along one day. It's a waiting game.
That sort of suggests you know what will happen in the future. Waiting around is not going to get you or the OP laid so I say be pro-active and get out there.