"is it normal that am dating a girl for over 2months without kissing?"

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am dating a girl for over 2 months now and I havent kissed her,she doesn't like us staying in a private places,she always visits me during the day and if I try to visit her at night,she gives one excuse or the other.........though she's a shy girl and without kissing her It makes me like feel we're just casual friends.........the only thing we have done is hugging........and that was once and am not happy about it........I really love her but..........am not happy with the situation....... what do you think??

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  • GuessWho
    10 years ago

    I actually find that kind of shyness/innocence cute.
    You got a rare find.
    Maybe just take it slow and you'll appreciate it so much more when stuff does happen.

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  • flowergirl87
    10 years ago

    It's a bit unusual but it's still 'normal'. Some people need more time... try and be patient and she will respect you for it a lot. If it gets silly and you haven't kissed after like six months, then maybe talk to her about it. Be gentle and considerate. Hope it works out.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Wait til they've been *dating* for *6* months to make a move/be straightforward? How long do you think life is? This girl is wasting his time

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      • flowergirl87
        10 years ago

        I did say 'if it gets silly' so that implies I think it's a long time. People are different, it wouldn't be something I'd personally do (I've kissed 6 hours into a first date) but I'm open minded to others ways of doing things. In a past LTR I waited about four months before sex and it was very interesting to see how many people just assumed we'd 'done it' after a few weeks. Funny how people kind of assume others do things they way they do timings wise.

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  • ThousandPoundsOfGanja
    10 years ago

    Bro... She ain't worth your time. Dump that hoe.

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  • cerberus0O0
    10 years ago

    Cock slap dat ho

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  • Torky
    10 years ago

    How Old Are You?! That's a huge Factor

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  • Alexis223
    10 years ago

    its not normal!! you need to ask her if there is a reason she is doing all that!!
    im a girl and i think kissing is an amzong special thing that makes me feel so happy! everyone deserves to feel that feeling!

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Decide how important she is to you, because it is NOT normal for her to be doing this to you. So you can either put up with it because you care about her very *very* much, or you can move on. I would move on. Unless she's a super prude I think she's just blowing you off on purpose and trying to keep you in the friend zone. Don't let her manipulate you and waste your time. If you want an intimate relationship and you're not getting it from her, be straightforward with her and if she doesn't budge then just leave her.

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  • suckonthis9
    10 years ago

    4 a : an appointment to meet at a specified time; especially : a social engagement between two persons that often has a romantic character
    b : a person with whom one has a usually romantic date

    No, usually 'dating' implies some degree of sexual interaction (romance). 'Sexual interaction' does not necessarily mean 'sexual intercourse'. Conversing about sex, holding hands, hugging and kissing, are usually the first steps when dating a person of the opposite sex.

    I think that you should stop referring to or viewing the female that you are interested in, as a 'girl'. A 'girl' is a pre-pubescent person of either sex.

    Perhaps you should try speaking with your female dating partner about kissing. You can then make a determination about her intentions, whether she is inclined to be simply 'friends' with you, or whether she is acceptant of a more 'romantic' relationship.

    Don't forget to have fun. Pucker up!

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Hah. As usual you're the awkward, eccentric linguist/word-smith. But essentially you're right.

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    • suckonthis9
      10 years ago

      Note: Remember that 'conversing about sex', does not mean getting into long and complicated discussions of sexual activity far beyond where your relationship is presently at.

      It should usually, but not always, be kept simple.

      For example: I would very much like to hold hands. She should then respond with something such as, yes, please do, I'd like that very much.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    So tell her no us.

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  • LostSoul22
    10 years ago

    Try to sneak in a cheek kiss when you hug, when you leave each other try giving her a hug and a cheek kiss see how she reacts to that. Maybe talk to her about things if you are unhappy.

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