is it normal that all men lack cleaning their bums?

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I read the post of the lady with a fiance whoms ass smell bad and I could concurr to the fullest. My man has been told over and over again wash your ass. He has a big ass too. I was like "bay please you can't just use your fingers and soap to wash your ass" you have to scrub with a towel". Over and over again. Then he has the nerve to sleep in the nude. I am losing my goddamn mind. He is not listnening to me. He always say, "bay you are just hypersensitive my ass doesn't stink". "I am like WHAT, WHAT"!!! I just want to knock some sense into him when he says that. Because YES YOUR ASS DOES STINK!!!! I approched the issue very politely and respectful but to no avail. Now I am gettin frustrated...I can't talk to no one about this because I don't want to embarrass him or myself. If he was to be like bay(talking to me) your nable, or vagina,or toes stink,i would do flying summersaults to the shower and scrub..why can't he see that I am serious. He is the sweetest guy and he is their for my kids...but sometimes the kids can't even cuddle with me because his area in the bed may have smells and skiddies. I have to wash sheets every goddamn morning. I am not a phobic type person, or a person who will say harsh things but I've already said it nicely and it went from nice to a tad bit firmer like "Honey please use this towel and scrub back their". He will be like" for what I already washed". "I'm like no bay use a towel" he says "a towel is overrated". Help me...what to do,what to do??????

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  • rayst
    12 years ago

    Loll "all men" im sorry i will wash my bum harder for you.

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    • prettyladykee
      12 years ago

      WOW...r u serious all men OMG....what kinda of future will my daughters have ....this is crazy ...I feel so heartbroken.... all men!!

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    Or spray his ass with pepper spray...he'll give a good scrubbing then. He will learn his lesson.
    Side note: worked in a jail years ago and an inmate had the lovely habit of spreading his ass cheeks every time jail personnel passed by his cell. He'd proceed to wink with his brown eye...leaving you staring into the black gaping abyss. Nothing could get him to stop...no punishment worked. I finally sprayed that ass. Oddly enough he never did it again.

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    Every time you smell his stinky ass, spray air freshener directly on or toward his ass. He'll get the idea plus smell like lavender. Thats a twofer.

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    • prettyladykee
      12 years ago

      Point well taken....

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    This sounds like a job for couples therapy or a intervention.

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  • strwbry
    11 years ago

    Now it is time to quit being afraid of hurting his feelings and quit sugar coating this for him. I am telling you this from personal experience. He is putting germs and bacteria on your bed sheets. E-coli comes from fecal matter. Your kids climb on your bed and his bad hygene is putting them at risk of toutching E-coli bacteria from not washing his ass good enough. My boyfriend works in a nursing home and when he first moved in with me I started getting sick every week or two with a cold or the flu. Then I found out that he hadn't even been using soap in the shower. I had tried everything in a nice way to get him to care more for his cleanliness (taking showers with him, reminding him to use soap, asking him to brush his teeth again, showing him how to wash, buying him washcloths and good smelling man soap). I felt like his mother :( My 1yr old daughter got a staff infection on her skin (he was taking care of a woman at work with a staff infection and leaving his dirty nursing home cloths lying on the floor everywhere. He is a sweet guy but after 3 rounds of antibiotics and 3 different skin creams to get rid on my daughters staff infection I had to have the come to Jesus talk. He now picks up after himself and takes much better care of his hygene but sometimes he'll start to revert back and after two years I am beyond being nice about it anymore. I don't even have to say anything to him about it now...he sees the look on my face and excuses himself to go take a shower or get the haircut, brush his teeth or trim his toenails, etc. All I'm sayin is be strait up and if he trully loves you he will listen, take your feelings seriously, and try harder.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    one thing we dry off with towels we don't wash with them we use rags

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago

    Randomjelly is a damn legend, lol.

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    • prettyladykee
      12 years ago

      I love you randomjelly...LMAO!!

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