"is it normal for my girlfriend to travel without telling me?"

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I've been dating a girl for over a month now,now she talked two days ago and yestaday she travelled without telling me,when I called her she said she was travelling and she was on her way,so I asked her why didn't she tell me she would be travelling then she told me it was emergency.And now where she's travelling to her ex schools close to wher she's going to,since she got there she havn't even call or text me.I love her very much but I don't know what to do...................she can't even tell me why she's travelling.............I persuaded her for a day then she later told me she's representing her dad dor somthings...........please tell me what to do??thanks

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  • Sog
    11 years ago | pl

    A month is not a very long time. But if you want this relationship to last longer than another month, then these are the kinds of trust issues that you need to quickly work out.

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  • starie
    11 years ago | pl

    I don't know if this girl is a trust worthy person but assuming that she is, i'd just trust her and not get all paranoid about it.
    If you do get paranoid like you are right now, i'd keep it to yourself or tell her that you are worried. Just don't accuse her of anything.

    Everything can be taken well by another if you communicate it in the right way.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    I don't think it's a big deal, since you've only been dating a month. I don't think you two are at the "I must know where you are at all times" stage quite yet. Maybe she was going to call you when she got settled in wherever she was going.

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  • thinkingaboutit
    11 years ago

    She's going to see another man.

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  • redoctober
    11 years ago

    She's cheating on you fool. It only takes one second to txt you stating shes travelling. You seriously need to come on here and ask?

    No hope.

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  • Stifler
    11 years ago

    Im gonna say normal.

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  • purplemonkey
    11 years ago

    Right now, you sound like you're in obsession. That's not love you feel.

    First, take a deep breath, examine your behavior, and focus on you.

    Keep in mind that you have to be independent (like she's trying to be) before being in a happy healthy relationship.

    Everything's fine. Go hang out with your friends or get back to your hobbies!

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  • 777electric
    11 years ago

    She can travel without your oh so important permission.
    Unless you magically assume she's cheating on you.

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    • purplemonkey
      11 years ago

      Lol he's insecure, not malicious.

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  • Gravy
    11 years ago

    How can she call you with a cock a in her mouth or text you when her fingers are busy handling the girth of that monster shaft while she seductively runs her tongue from his ball sack to the tip of his uncircumsised cock, savoring the droplets of pre-jism. Come on, be fair.

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  • Whytechyck
    11 years ago

    I don't think there's a time limit for love so I'm not gonna tell you that you're "not at that stage yet". I loved my bf before we were together a full month. Do you trust her? It is rather odd, I guess. I contact my bf everyday...even at the beginning of our relationship, I did. I wouldn't start getting paranoid and say she's cheating or whatever. Where exactly did she go? Why? I honestly don't think there's anything wrong with asking these questions...no matter how long you guys have been together. Tell her how you feel but don't accuse.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Tissues at asda.

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  • suckonthis9
    11 years ago

    You have been dating a child of either sex?

    Origin: Middle English gurle, girle young person of either sex.

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