is it normal: for my boyfriend to....

My boyfriend is constantly changing his mind on us dating or not. IS THIS NORMAL?! Good grief I need stability. After almost a year he cant control his anger lashes out and breaks up then calls me crying saying
"im sorry my anger got the best of me."
I need to fix him....I love him more than anything but I cant live like this.
Is this normal? What should i do?

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Based on 66 votes (6 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • dom180

    You can't just fix him. This is his personality, this is who he is. Stand up for yourself and don't let him manipulate you. Don't settle.

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    • I agree. You cannot "fix" people.

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    • Right. Unless he's a dog you can't just fix him.

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  • You should be the one showing him that you do not care if he breaks up, do not call him back when he hangs up the phone etc. He will realise what he is doing then and you will see him change.

    Dont let him walk all over you!

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  • It may be painful, but you have to break up for good.

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    • RoseIsabella

      I agree with you.

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  • thatchickyouhate

    walk away. you can't change someone, or fix them. so if things are already that bad, it's not going to get better from here.

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  • RoseIsabella

    You can't fix him; he's a person not a faulty machine. Accept that you are powerless over him and his problems and understand the only one you can change is yourself then you will be a much happier person!

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  • PureGold

    Ditch the whiny bitch before he breaks your pc and then you can't get on IIN or worse, your jaw.
    Be safe.

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  • megadriver

    You can not fix him. If he is like that, that is his personality. You can't fix a personality! If it's broken, it will stay like that forever!

    Sorry if this sounds harsh... Find a new boyfriend!
    No reason to go insane over someone who is insane.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    You can't change some-one and it's no use trying, breaking up for good would be best for both of you.

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