"is it normal for a guy to leave you just because you are a virgin?"

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Am 19yrs & still a virgin.
There's this guy whom we've been dating for about 2 weeks.
Recently i visited him in his place & he requested if we can have sex but i refused coz i was still a virgin & i was not ready.
He was suprised by the fact that i was a virgin. Since then, i've stayed for about 3wks without hearing from him. He assumes me completely.
Am wondering what's wrong? I feel so lonely....

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    He's not worthy of you or your virginity. There are plenty of real men out there who will respect you and your choices and treat you like a princess.

    You are better without this guy.

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  • RentingEmotion
    13 years ago | pl

    He's a pig. You're lucky he stopped talking to you. He only wanted sex, and you should be proud you didn't give in.

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  • jenn
    13 years ago | pl

    Lose him!

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  • gako
    13 years ago

    Hes a complete moron. Good for you for not letting that prick take something so precious from you. Guys like that don't fall in love. They play and leave. Don't be sad because he left but be greatful that he's gone. He doesn't derserve your purity. Ignore and& forget him.

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  • kait_dona_who
    13 years ago | pl

    Don't worry about him. If he can't accept the fact that you aren't ready then he's not worth your time. I wouldnt even have sex with a guy after only two weeks. I would wait at least four, maybe five tops so I get to know him and feel comfortable with him...

    It sounds like he was just after the sex especially since he hasn't contacted you and since you said no to the sex then to him there is no point in continuing a relationship with you. If he had really cared about you he would have called or something, not just end it right then and there. Although there is a SMALL chance that he is waiting for you to call him but I very much doubt it

    One day you will be ready. Some people take longer than others. But you'll find a guy who is a million times better than this guy and it will be worth it.

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago

    He just wanted you for sex. Forget it.

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  • Smithyc22
    13 years ago

    It is normal for a guy that is looking for sex. He wasn't with you for a relationship. Be glad that you turned him down. You would have only been hurt even worse had you slept with him. Move on and find someone that will treat you better.

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  • Sweet16
    13 years ago

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    that guy is not embarassed, i sent him an SMS & he didn't replied.
    I've just phoned him today but he told me he was fine & he had moved to another town.

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  • Reaper13
    13 years ago

    He is a dick if you are a virgan then so be it bet he's off having sex right now but it could emfizize the could be emberassed you should call the doucher

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Your boyfriend is mean if he's using you as a sex tool and not loving you for real.

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  • Hard_Candy
    13 years ago

    He is a loser. Good for you for not allowing him to pressure you. Your first time only happens once and you want it to be with someone who truly loves you. If a guy loves a girl he will wait as long as it takes for you to feel comfortable.

    Your virginity is a prize. Make them work for it!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    tbh just let him fuck you ;) its nice ;0 I promise

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I think its because you denied him sex maybe he feels like a complete idiot for asking and embaressed? did you say to him that you werent ready?

    Talk to him dont wait for him to talk to you maybe hes too embarresed to make the next move.

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  • kingdiego88
    13 years ago

    i wouldve smashed you in a heart beat! ur a virgin for geezzz sakes

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  • BabyGotBack
    13 years ago

    its odd, i'd be trying to get down your pants quicker.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Aha you guys do realise the guy might be embaressed? people do tend to get very embaressed when people deny sex etc so maybe instead of telling her to dump him tell her to ask him whats wrong instead of posting on a website.

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  • NormaLeeSane
    7 years ago

    It is clear that there was only one reason for his attentions in the first place - you were going to be the next notch on his belt buckle. Now that you've made it clear that's not what you're there for (good for you, by the way), he has moved on. He isn't worthy of your time or your affection. It's time for you to move on to someone who is. Not that you should push it - there's no rush. When it happens, it should seem like the most right and natural thing in the world. You're no one's plaything!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    dont feel lonely, I know this is weird but im 18 and iive been dating a 15 year old for a little over 7 months, she is a virgin and im not and i would never leave her over something that stupid my advice get a better boyfriend.

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  • Bigbrother92
    13 years ago

    I really hope I marry a girl like you, girls have hurt me so much in the past I feel like I can only trust and love a virgin. Fuck him. He doesn't understand how emotionally amazing you could be or what you offer from your heart. Fuck pigs like him.

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  • password4
    13 years ago

    prolly because he doesent feel like investing all his time time in something he might not even get because he just wanted to have sex with you

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  • andrelo_06
    13 years ago

    Boys like virgins that other boys like... Better than other girls who are not... But , hey, try getting married first or he is just gonna be full of it and there will be other interests and he will leave u. COMMON SENSE

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  • soccergirl17
    13 years ago

    He sounds like a dik, u should find someone that doesn't JUST want sex :)

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  • steph413
    13 years ago

    Wait until you find someone that loves you for you! You will definitely find someone. In the meantime, try to live your life moment by moment. You will give the guy who brome your heart more power over you if you continue to think about him. Try your best to let him go! I wish you all the best!

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  • Anonymus_Coward
    13 years ago

    He's a jerk.
    As a guy, id love to have a virgin girlfriend.
    Considering im one, i myself have had the chance of sex, but denied because there was no emotional connection.

    He isnt worth it. Stick to your beliefs and eventually you will find a man that loves you, not some man that see's you as a sexual object.

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  • Peeve
    13 years ago

    Yes, if he is a wanker

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  • the_nick30
    13 years ago

    Man Up.

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  • fatty
    13 years ago

    Get sum

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    that fuckin sucks kick his ass!

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