is it normal that my step daughter acts like a 18 yo girl when she is only 10?

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This is hard to believe but is true. I live with my fiance since 7 months ago. She has a "little" girl of 10yo. The most amazing thing is that she don't act like a girl of her age. She don't think like a girl of her age. If you know her you will find shes an 18 yo girl in a body of 10. In fact, she don't have good relationships with another classmates at school cause she consider them boring. Well, what worries me the most comes here...

When we are alone she try to do things to catch my attention, she pose, she ask me to carry her and... the other day when she ask me to stay with her to watch a movie she kissed me as I were her bf. Believe me I have met many girls and she knows perfectly what shes doing like she have done this before or she were trained or adviced for this. The worst! The other day she grabbed my hand a put it between her legs then she guide me to touch her in some specific way. This was really hard to belive for me cause it makes me think and feel like I'm dealing with a mature, older and... more experienced with men little girl... I just can't believe it. I need and advice. What worries me a lot is not how I'm going to respond cause I can calm myself since I know she's just a little girl and I would be on jail if I do any even the less. But I do worry about her behavior and I start thinking who could possibly teach her? How did she learned all this seductive act.. omg! She's just a girl. Maybe her mom?

Since she act's, talks, expresses, think like a much older girl it confuses me a lot. Sometimes I start thinking that maybe she really is 18 or something and that shes has some decease that make her look younger. .. well I don't know please advice...

Thanks a lot.

It is very important to mention that I have never taken advance from all this. I'm just sharing my experience to you so I can have some advice and opinions that's it!

Thanks o lot.

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago | pl

    She needs to be talked to with her mother present. The real problem is when she will be away from the home and not around you guys. Some teenage boy would catch on very quickly that she is asking for it. In reality, she really has no idea and could be in real trouble and not know it till she gets her panties pulled down.
    It's most likely that she learned a lot from her mother, and that could be a problem for you as well. Maybe her mother thinks it's cute or at least not harmful. Nothing could be further from the truth. Good luck.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    It is possible that she may have been molested, obviously not by you. Children who are sexually abused can sometimes act very precocious almost as if they are little adults. Talk to her mother and be honest with her. Her daughter should see a therapist.

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    • LizardSkin
      10 years ago

      Yes, because they liked it the first time, they go for seconds. Intimacy is human nature, and instinctive when experience "happens."

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Maybe someone has molested her in the past. Children who have been molested often act much older than their age. Sad by true.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Talk to her and to her mother. Be honest and open - and make it clear that you accept no less from them in return.

    Where are you from?

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  • FuzzaMuzza7
    9 years ago

    She's probably too smart for her peers I was like that she'll grow out of it

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  • omphemetse
    10 years ago

    There a some spirits in this life that we turn to not know about, well it might be that she is being control by a certain spirit which is bad, pray for her and go to church with her and try to explain to the mother also

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  • Isanlapsi
    10 years ago

    Her behavior is not normal.. frightingly it sounds like she has been molested. A 10 year old should not know about sex yet, well not that detailed anyway. She needs to see a therapist. Does her mother know about this??

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    Me thinks you enjoy her affections...don't lie man.

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  • lemoncity
    10 years ago

    She's Kokonoe Rin incarnate..! Anime character comparisons aside, this isn't normal and something may have happened to her.

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