"i love ya!" to someone else?

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Well my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. He has a friend, who is a girl, and they are really good friends.
I don't mind her, except for the fact that I know she likes my boyfriend (ands wants to date him). I know this because he has told me she has confessed to him before. I'm not worried about him leaving me for her, its just sometimes she really gets on my nerve. For example posting "You are my best friend!!!!!:)" on his wall or posting something along the lines of a check if its true thing. She checked in like "I love you", "Your cute", "I could see us together" and ect.
I just want to know is it normal if my boyfriend says "i love ya!" back to her, or if they talk about her boob size together or he says "f you" and she says "gladly ;)" and then he jokingly says "where?" and she replies " now" back. I don't want to sound jealous its just i want her to back off my boyfriend...now because this has been going on since we started dating and its irking me.

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  • Hard_Candy
    13 years ago

    Its your boyfriend you should confront, not her. She is not the one dating you so she doesn't owe you anything. She doesn't have to back off. Its YOUR MAN who's disrespecting you. He should simply ignore her when she comes onto him, eventually she'd get the hint and back off. But the way you've described their MUTAL flirting; I'm sorry but your boyfriend doesn't respect you at all. He clearly could care less about your feelings. You can't fight off all the bitches that want to holla at your man. Your boyfriend is the problem. I'd say lose him.

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  • pmon
    13 years ago

    Why don't you guys have a threesome that will solve the problem.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago

    The dude is being an asshole and the girl a total bitch. If he knows she likes him he is totally leading her on, inticing something, flirting with her and above all being disrepectful to you. Tell him to cut the crap or your outta there!

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  • callieforniaxox
    13 years ago

    Have they hooked up before? If so, you need to tell them to back off eachother if he's gonna be with you. Simple

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  • buckman
    13 years ago

    If he knows she likes him, and he's with you not her, then why is it a big deal? I can see it being irritating, but don't expect him to choose you over his best friend. Just because she likes him in that way, doesn't mean he feels the same.

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  • phazeylxx
    13 years ago

    *then you could always do the "it's me or her" thing.

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  • Pwnfacertwn
    10 years ago

    It's etc. not ect

    And for future reference...
    There are winners and losers not winners and loosers
    It's all of a sudden not all of the sudden
    Supposedly not supposebly
    And regardless not irregardless

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  • RaNdOmPoPcOrN
    12 years ago

    dat bitch wants him

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  • youdneverguess
    13 years ago

    Do you have guy friends?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    That's bad.

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  • phazeylxx
    13 years ago

    I would just talk to him. A guy shouldn't even be joking about sex with another girl while having a girlfriend. He shouldn't be talking about her boob size either.. Sounds like a player to me.. You need to talk to him and find out his feelings towards her. If you still feel like somethings up then you could always alt

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    • DreamCatcher123
      13 years ago

      Thank You! I've tried a bit to talk with him about it before, but I think I'm gonna push a little harder and make him talk about it this time.

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  • xo22
    13 years ago

    I'd kill him lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Uh? No!
    I would NOT like that,Give gonna talk! Ask him if he has feelings for her!
    Plus? My question to you? Have the been GOOD friends before you dated!

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