(guys only) what do you find more attractive?
sense of style | 16 | |
personality | 143 | |
hot body | 107 | |
Other (Add a comment) | 24 | |
looks | 80 |
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sense of style | 16 | |
personality | 143 | |
hot body | 107 | |
Other (Add a comment) | 24 | |
looks | 80 |
Looks are a superficial layer, like wrapping paper. Personality is much more important. The sort of girl i'm looking for is rare. I like the strange, nerdy ones. Preferably someone who shares my intrest in weapons and someone i can watch movies with. In the end its hard to find someone compatible with your specific needs.
Especially when the other halves are probably self conscious about showing their geeky/strange ways, to begin with anyway. :)
Though I have to say, last year when I went to see Scott Pilgrim vs. The World; the auditorium was full to the brim with folk and when everyone was laughing in unison at the geeky jokes I was like, "These are dorks, like me! :D," and started eying up all the nerdy lads that passed, haha!
As a guy myself I need a girl that has personality. Someone that can cheer me up and make me laugh at myself. I agree looks are important too but not as important as someone I can get along with.
I'm not even a guy and I know that a hot body will always attract a guy first. The other choices are more long-term determinants. If that wasn't true there wouldn't be the term "butter face".
I said looks cause it's separate from hot body, and I'd like to define the distinction (in my mind) here: Looks (for me) is like how a girl moves, the little things she does, it encompasses her "look", her face, her body type (many body types can work if the girl is comfortable in hers). Girls always attract me with the little ways they move that make them unique and cute. I tend to overlook other stuff for that.
It's a bit of a combination. Let's be honest. When a man spots a woman the first attraction will always be to a physical trait. Blonde, brunette, petite, thick, racial or ethnic, whatever. Later on the personality factors will become more important.
Personality is most important, though there is a certain level of ugly that even the best personality couldn't make me get over. Aside from that, style does a hell of a lot more to make me attracted to a girl than her body does.
Sense of style, looks, intelligence, wit.
It wsn't tits, both wives are A-B; I actually like to suck on little tits. Both also had big vulvas, labia, and clits, which make up for any flaws.
Why isn't "all of the above" on the list?
They all go hand in hand. If a girl just has a good personality but is ugly as fuck, then sex wont be as enjoyable. Or if she is all hot body and no good personality, then the relationship will suck dick.
A middle ground is necessary
A nice, open-minded girl who share many of my intresets. Intellegence would be great, even if she is smarter than me.(Challenge!) Kinda nerdy would be cool, as im a gamer. Looks arent the most important thing, but they cant be too ugly, and a little extra weight is fine. they cant be 400 pounds though.
Putting 'other' because really it's all of the above. Any potential partner needs to be compatible as a friend as well as physically attractive.
who cares about style? looks are important, but more important is that they share my dislike for authority and lack of religion.. i don't like judging by religion, but i get along with atheists so much better.
I think persanality because I want a girl whos not to girly and is funny
Why do you say "guys only???" What about the lesbians?! Can't they answer this too? Or the bisexual girls? Hmmm?!?!
I'm generally looking for something long-term so personality is most important to me. Someone sweet, funny and who likes animals would be a Godsend.
Stop bulsh*tting let's all face it: looks do matter. Of course personality is the biggest beauty factor but if she's uglier than Donald Trump you probably won't date her. It sucks and it shuldn't be like that but it's not a choice it's simple human atraction .
Same goes for girls, I love a guy's personality but if he looks like a dirty trash can, i won't be as turned on as I would if he looked like a clean trash can. Although you dont need to look like a Victoria Secrets model or a Calvin Klein model, just take care of yourself and be healthy.
Both having a hot body along with a great personality is the most important for me!
Oh, and what's the fucking difference between looks and a hot body? If by looks you mean the face, then you should specify.
Also, "sense of style" is ambiguous. What does it mean? Just clothing? Mannerism? Or does it encompass personality in some form?
Looks are, like, the most overrated thing in the world. I mean, sure, they're nice to look at, for a few minutes, but beyond that, what are you going to do with THAT? Useless.
Personality. I can and have dated girls who some would consider fat or ugly, but they showed me so much love and care that it didn't matter. And on that note, love and care is all you really need. That girl ended up having a horrible personality, but I decided that the immense amounts of love and care she did show me that no one else did, out weighed the bad.
But, on that note, I have also decided that I will put personality before love and care in the future. So in conclusion, personality is the only thing a girl needs to get a good guy.
looks are important but not everything. wouldn't enjoy a relationship with someone who was hot but i didnt like, but as much as i hate to admit it i wouldn't want to go out with the nicest girl in the world if she had a beard, a hairy chest and weighed 400 kilograms.
i rather find a girl thats has interest that she can explain to me like if she can start a conversation bout wat she likes an how she feels an cares bout what i say dats the kind of girl i would want one that can keep the conversation going good looks cant always get you places but the way you talk can
well, i'm pretty glad that personality is the winning vote here, not that i'm ugly or anything, but i'm just unsure of what guys really look for in a girl.