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Do guys prefer getting to meet the sexy provocative woman (not necessarily a whore) in tight clothes and high heels or the cute average woman in baggy clothes and messy hair ? Like for a first impression without getting to know them which one would u go for ?
I remember many, many years ago when I met a girl as she was unpacking. She wasn't wearing any make-up. Her hair was in a messy pony-tail. She was wearing a ratty, old t-shirt. She was so pretty just the way she was.
I was actually thoroughly convinced right on the spot that I was going to marry her some day.
As I think about that moment so long ago, I realize how lucky I am that our 10 year anniversary is only a few months away. :)
Roxco, I still completely disagree with you, I don't give a shit about looks, it's all about personality for me, so give me the girl with the messy hair and good personality any day.
Why do people have the impression the opposite gender is some sort of communist casting agency? Different people have different tastes, figure it out yourself, tool.
Honestly, in the end looks don't matter. Would you rather be in a relationship with a woman who's beautiful on the outside but a total bitch; Or be with a woman who is incredibly loving, caring, and the perfect fit for you. In the end it's all a matter of preference. Looks fade, but a good heart/ personality lasts forever.
I would be more likely to notice the scantily clad female first. Regardless of her tits popping out, the fact that she put time and effort into her appearance would attract me. I like females who look 'put together'. Vs the other female you mentioned, she just sounds like a stoner who rolled out of bed. I am not into stoners or 'bag ladies'.
Obviously the personality plays a role here, but the question was about first visual appearance so there you go.
Guys are superficial, shallow jerks who only care about outer beauty so most would like a sexy girl in tight clothes obviously!!!
I agree with the hillbilly... Men are all about looks. They are superficial, shallow, horney pigs who only think with their penis. It's sad but true that men will do anything to see a sexy whore because they are pathetically desperate and just absent minded scum sucking rodents..so why don't you "countryroads" go have sex with your cousin, eat your nasty grits, and take care of your inbred retarded children at your piece of shit trailer house!!!
Don't try to attract the opposite sex with your looks, but with your personality and self confidence. Don't be fake! Be a good person and be real. Are you attracted to fake people or real people? Sure guys can stare at 'hot' girls but even hot girls if they have no self esteem are extremely disposable. Look at what happened to Jodi Arias. Not to compare you with a murderer, except she attracted the guy with her looks and had a fake personality and she was only used for sex.
you have to be attracted to the woman. maybe physically or intellectually. if there is no attraction the relationship wont last.
First impression men like the put together girls rather than the makeupless ponytail girls. Whatever sure the plainer ones may be nicer, but you don't see girls like that in strip clubs or porn. Men PAY to see big boobs, makeup, fixed hair, and a banging body. They don't pay to see plain janes.
Lol to the bag lady comment^
But I'd rather have a girl with a nice personality, and is really interesting. Looks come second to that, however I would like a cute girl.
If a guy had a sexy put together friend and a messy tomboy friend and both liked him I gurantee that the guy would choose the pretty one to date to show off to his guy friends. Younger guys are all about physical attraction unless they are over 30 then they are mature enough to care about outer/inner beauty too. So I'm guessing that you dappled must be 25 or over to think that way. Hasn't anyone here seen the ugly truth when he's telling the girl what men like and how she should dress!!
I think everyone may be missing the point. Men are fully aware that clothes and make-up are only clothes and make-up. The attraction is the girl underneath those clothes and we're going to be attracted to her no matter what she's wearing. However, if she's wearing something provocative, more men are going to notice.
That's all it is, though. We'll notice more often but we'll neither be more nor less attracted than we would have been anyway.
id prefer the average cute girls..they have a nicer personality n usually the hoes try to play hard to get which is annoyin rather than attractive lol
Looks fade, it's the conversation & understanding that keeps the friendship flowing, the appreciation and considerate treatment between friends and lovers. But don't underestimate the power of spark,chemistry and sex. They are important but secondary.
You people didn't get what I was asking. I meant as a first impression, if they're both as good on the inside.