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Let's say you see a random guy at the mall: what about him are you most attracted to? and please be honest.
| His face and hairstyle | 46 | |
| His height | 14 | |
| His build/figure | 14 | |
| The way he carries himself | 11 | |
| Legs, butt, arms etc. | 2 | |
| Clothing and accessories | 10 | |
| All of the above | 62 | |
| None of these. I'm attracted to his personality rather | 53 | |
| Other (add comment) | 15 |
Lol I bet the personality bit will be the one girls pick but in real life they know they dont pick that type.
they actually do care about personality above all else (this includes his confidence level imo). BUT, if the guy doesn't groom himself well (aka stay clean and atleast fairly stylish) he will most likely be rejected.
I dissagree, Females are just like males, good looks come first and you can try and say otherwise but I am yet to see an attractive female with an non attractive male.
I have to agree with ItDuz, the poll doesn't lie. More women have voted for looks rather than personallity. Just look at the results. It's sad but it's true. When it comes down to it, women are just as shallow as men are.
Name five couples hat have an ugly male and an attractive female and then you would have proven me wrong.
My experience as a man totally contradicts the results of the poll. As a young man in the clubs, when I would ask a woman to dance the first thing she would do is scan my clothes down to my shoes, then look at my watch before she would answer. My cousin and I would watch each other from a distance to confirm that this was actually happening. My watch had nothing to do with my personality.
I'm looking for the most uncomfortable and awkward person because I really don't want to be at the mall and my guess is that they don't either.
If a guy has shit personality then I won't find him attractive at all no matter he good looking he is.
Assuming I suffered some type of brain injury and would actually go to the mall to meet someone, I always look at the eyes first.
If u see a random guy in the mall how Can u be attracted to his personality? You don't kno him.....u can't SEE personality
I am a vary strange girl. I have never dated or gave a guy my number or anything! I never looked at a guy and said "Wow, He's hot!! I hope he asks me out!" My friends all thought i was gay lmao. But i do find men handsome, so i know thats not it :D I Only really liked 1 guy enough to want to be with, and i have got to admit.. Hes ugly lmao! But he was the smartest, funniest, guy i ever met,-It's like we had our own language of Dork!- and It took 6 months for him to actually kiss me (I don't think he believed i liked him like that -until 1 incident- He was completely baffled cuz I ALWAYS turned down guys left and right, always more interested in doing stupid fun stuff instead of looking for a boyfriend) Sadly i moved states shortly after. I'm one case where anyone can honestly say, "She's attracted to personality, because she was WWAAAYY outta his league" lmao
The face is a big deal. Since i LOVE facial hair. But I'm a tall girl and i don't look twice if he's shorter than me
I love a guy that is not shy and that has a cute little stubble. Guys like that would do anything! I also want a guy that will stick up for me if someone calle me a name or hit me. <3
No judgement on looks...I'm up for personality. Its what is in the heart. :)
Definitely the way he carries himself. It can tell you a lot about a guy, whether he's confident, cocky, shy, nervous, anything. Guys can say what they want but body language is key.
After that I'd say humour though. My guy is totally not my usual type, and I wouldn't say he's instantly recognizable as attractive, but he carries himself confidently and he's got a great sense of humour :) I couldn't imagine being with anyone else!
I have an overall standard of physical sexiness and as long as that checks out, next comes usefulness and intelligence. I could never be with a man I'm not physically attracted to and I also could never be with a sexy man (for long anyway) if he is stupid and useless.
By useful I mean he has to be able to shoot, hunt, fish, fix everything, fight and work.
Women fucking lies what they look for in a man is lots of money and some wemen loke a big fat fat cock because the slut pussy is wore out.
His voice, and height. Definitely personality too. But voices are the second thing I notice that get me. Appearance, voice, personality :)
All the "cute" guys at every place look like as if they're used to getting "ooo" looks. I never pay attention to them... there is a 90 percent chance someone is already dating them.. they probably get headaches from girls giving them those looks..maybe even sick... I say that because I just imagined if I was a boy right now, and I'd think I'd be having headaches all the time, if I already had a girlfriend. So, I look mostly for what a guys' feelings is for me and his personality.
Eyes/face, Build, Hair, Fashion and the way he holds himself initally but if the personality is brilliant then YES if hes a total dick then NO! ;)
depends what girl you ask... ask my boss, she'll be rather shallow... ask my ex, she'll say personality...
ask any woman a friend of mine has dated and they'll say anything but him.
looks may make it past the first stage, then personal prefference of clothing and style... but all can fall down on personality...
i like guys that are good looking but sometimes not everyone thinks so piercings can be hot on the rite guy, they for sure have to be funny and sweet but know how to stand up for me or his friends, and skinny jeans once agian on the rite man caan be hot.... he aslo has to be likr super tall, but i usally like the guys who are less popular in school and still good looking w/ a personality to love and clothing and eyes.... hair
i like guys that aren't ugly, but not the most hottest/popular guy in school, guys that are nice,kind of quiet,funny, smart, and a guy that will want to take the next step in a relationship but not be too pushy, a guy that is faithful,loyal and if he is sporty thats good too
i really like tall boys even though his not that cute at all i will probably give it a try as long as his nice......
I'm attracted to skinny guys that have a sense of humor. An arrogant personality is a turn off for me.
Oh, hush everyone that keeps talking about personality. Of course it's important and that's what matters when it comes down to it, but the question is about just seeing some random guy at the mall; not getting to know him.
I am too socially uncomfortable to go anywhere. But if I was to go too a mall, I would be attracted to glasses, cleverness, and hair the most.
I didn't bother to read the posts yet, because I am passionate about this issue.
In the course of about 20 years, I have asked perhaps 10 women what they look for in a guy.
All 10 (or so) gave thwe same answer, verbatim. They all gave the very same answer.
"Personality and a sense of humor."
This used to bother me, because that answer was absolute bullshit!
Like it or not, we are all judged on our looks. Women want a pretty face on a man. Any psychologist, socialogist, or anthropologist will tell you we seek attractive mates.
That response no longer bothers me, because I realize these women are only kidding themselves. It's as though that response is hard-wired into their heads.
I also believe game-playing (and being aloof, on the mans part), and money come in second and third.
Women, please stop kidding yourselves. Be truthful to yourselves and those around you.
First I would try to notice if he has a big ego/looks arragont, that is an immediate turn off. Dark hair, wide shoulders, a warm smile and someone fairly tall would immediately catch my eye. And I know you can't really tell if someone is intelligent by just looking at them, but nevertheless someone who 'looks' intelligent would also catch my eye. Ghetto styled clothes, piercings, wife beaters (sleeveless tops) and skinny jeans would be a turn off. Keep in mind that I am only referring to first impressions, but I know that first impressions aren't always good to go by.
Looks fade we seriously need to remind ourselves of that. You want a man who you find attractive or it wont work but if thats all he has and you sacrifice on the caring and kindness and most importantly maturity and ability to keep a job parts then you will miss out later in life.
girls pick face and height. Rest are just lying, or their pick is out of their league.
Well the first thing I notice is his height and his eyes..that would usually be what causes me to approach him or not, but then I become focused on personality.