2 girls,i can love them both right?

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ok,8 months ago i met this hot hot HOT girl,shes 2 years younger then me tho so we do not go to the same school,now about a month ago,i met another girl,i broke up with the 1st girl...but we still talked and acted like it never happend,the girl i am dating no dosent know about her,but me and girl 1 still get together whenever we can,girl 2 also goes to my school,but shes not as hot and she dosent know me as well.i also love girl 1s personality more.

so bassicly,im asking is it normal that i can love both of these girls at once? it feels right,and the most seemingly wrong thing,durring datig both of these girls ive slept with 2 other girls ,just one night stands tho,they were the type of girls who will sleep with anyone, so i just did it i didnt care,no feelings for them.but i do love girl 1 and girl 2 and i know i do...so is this normal?

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    i hope i don't sound harsh, but this is the way i see it.

    you are attracted and have feelings for both girls, which doesn't make it love. wanting the two girls is not loving the two girls. you don't love either girl enough to be honest with her.

    you say that it feels "right" and then "wrong", more appropriately it feels "good" and "wrong".

    you are young, and so far, sleeping around with anyone hasn't harmed you, but don't be so sure it never will.

    i suppose you can have them both, if you choose, because decisions you make now don't necessarily have to have an impact on your life later on. well, except unwanted pregnancy with 20 years of child support and sexually transmitted viruses or not developing any values.

    there is a thrill involved for you to have the two of them at the same time also. anyone can do that, but when love is concerned, no one does that.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago

    Now, it is possible to love two people at once. However I think you're confusing love with other things, understandable because you sound young, and haven't experienced some things yet. Right now I think you're trying to ignore the fact that you dont know what you want, but it's fine to not know. It's supposed to be tough to figure that out, otherwise you'll take a shallow lesson out of it.

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  • cherrybomb21
    13 years ago

    You seem like a major asshole and an even bigger idiot. I bet you didn't have a father growing up so that's why you're so confused about relationships. Don't commit yourself to anyone, just go fuck whatever you want to with no strings attached because that's all you'll ever be capable of doing.

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  • zii
    14 years ago

    Its normal to be attracted to many people at once. but its not normal to be a fucking man whorre. You sound young, so you probably wont spread AIDS until your in your 20's.

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  • Passionate
    14 years ago

    yes you can. i have 3 pet sisters and a gf. i love them all but only one can have me, my gf.

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    • zii
      14 years ago

      lol

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  • BOYracer88
    14 years ago

    lies, all lies

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  • TalkAndTouch
    14 years ago

    Back when I was in Grade 12 I dated 2 SISTERS at the same time! Yes, I was in love with both. :-)

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  • BlackSaviour
    14 years ago

    i know it is love tho,i was with that once girl for 7 months so i know i love her,im probly not in love with 2 but it feels like it

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    • Bonche25
      14 years ago

      I agree with mtnw. You don't seem to "love" either of these two girls if you are willing to have one night stands with easy girls. If you love the first girl why did you break up with her in the first place?

      In my opinion you have a few options.

      1) talk to the girl you broke up with about your feelings and get it sorted out.

      2) talk to the girl you are currently dating and tell her about the other girl.

      3) clean up your act and get over the first girl and learn to love your current girlfriend otherwise things could get really complicated.

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    • mtnw
      14 years ago

      well, you sound too young to commit to #1 anyway, so see them both if you want. problem is if the one you really love finds out, you could loose her. it's up to you if you don't mind the consequences.

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