argues too much/picks on me about my past

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He always brings up what he calls my 'dark past' - I was an adult industry worker until just before I met him, I didn't want o tell him but he found out and I admitted. Now, anytime we have an argument he often brings it up and demands to know more because, according to him, I did more than I admitted to. I told him what I did was nothing to do with him as I didn't know him at the time, but he insists it is to do with him as he 'needs' to 'know everything' about me for us to be in a good relationship...
Is it normal for someone to constantly make you 'in the wrong/bad/deceptive' just because you didn't tell them every f***ing gory detail about your past?

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Based on 19 votes (6 yes)
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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    At heart he is an insecure little boy. Even if they won't admit it, guys who are worried about their gf/wife's ex sexual partners are actually worried they won't be able to match up in the bedroom. He probably wants to know all the details so he knows exactly what he is being compared to in your mind, you might have fucked a guy with a ten inch horse cock who is mega experienced at everything in the bedroom, how can he match that with his 5 inch pecker. He is the one with the problem, tell him he needs to deal with it or you are over as that's not a good relationship to be in.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    I'm sorry, but he sounds like an insecure bitch that is looking for an excuse, in an attempt to conceal his insecurities. He doesn't sound worth it to me. Next time he asks, ask him about his "dark secrets". Flip his tactics on him. See on he likes it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Nobody should be with someone whose past they cannot accept.

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  • dirtybirdy
    9 years ago

    He's insane. Run run run run, run run away.

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    • shuggy-chan
      9 years ago

      Fly fly fly*

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        I ate His liver with some fava beans...: http://youtu.be/iVlkZVAw8Gc

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  • theotherblonde
    9 years ago

    I would say I love you but I can't deal with you pressuring me for the truth and then getting mad when I tell you it.

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  • Lulilummu
    9 years ago

    Like they said, insecure little piece of work.
    Once there is a secret, people will continue to think that there are more secrets yet. All i can do is cheer you on.

    I would drop him, but that's just me. If he can't accept/respect the fact that you have thing you want to keep to yourself one reason or another.

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