16, younger, sex

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First my boss introduces me to a handsome guy, I work in my college library, we hit it off right a way. throughout the day we keep running into each other and talking more and more.

Then that night we both go to a party at the school together, a dance party. he only dances for one song after I ask him too. then later we go off on our own and talk some more. I asked him his major at this point and he tells me he is 16! he looks 20 and acts older. I'm 28.

We have talked on facebook and in text for the past week, and we get along. he is the kind of person that I could see myself being friends with.

The problem is I started to like him before I knew his age, and now I can't get him out of my head.

is it normal to like a 16 y/o guy? (AoC is 16)

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Based on 370 votes (251 yes)

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jeebley

9 years ago | pl

I like the title you gave this story :)

If he was 20 and you were 32, I wouldn't think it was quite so bad (although for most people that's probably still weird).
Yeah, he's way too young. I think you should stop entertaining thoughts about him.

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Diver2

9 years ago

Have you sucked him off yet?

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Avant-Garde

9 years ago

I don't know where this is taking place and as such, I don't know what the legal age of consent is for your country. If he is not of legal age, it would be best for both of you to wait until he is that age before you try to pursue some type of romantic/sexual relationship. Being friends at this point, however, should be okay.

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- Couman
  
  9 years ago
  
  It says "AoC is 16" right there.
  
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  - Avant-Garde
    
    9 years ago
    
    How did I manage to miss this?! Thanks.
    
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- Ugluk
  
  9 years ago
  
  she stated - AoC (Age of Consent for those too dim to work it out for themselves)is 16 in her country. so, it's legal and they both have the freedom to decide for themselves. As to whether it'll last, it's in the lap of the gods. maybe t will, maybe it won't but they have to give it a chance. Many couples of identical or close ages have failed relationships so are they any better? Remember Charlie Chaplin married a 20 ish girl when he was over 80. They lived happily together until his death.
  
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  - Avant-Garde
    
    9 years ago
    
    In general, I have nothing against age disparity in relationship. A person could be in their 30's and dating someone in their 70's. I wouldn't care. It wouldn't be my place to judge. If it wasn't consensual, that would be another thing. Would I stick myself into the equation? No. If I thought that it wasn't consensual, I might make assumptions but, I would keep them to myself. I wouldn't go up to them based on assumptions/observations that could very well be incorrect, and not only embarrass them but also make allegations against them that might not even true. It wouldn't be my place to do this.
    
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green_boogers

9 years ago

Since AoC is 16, take him on a very nice date with a special experience for a present.

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[Old Memory]

9 years ago

Gross

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Anonymous Post Author

9 years ago

my Grandmother was 12 years older than my grandfather. they mad it work.

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SkullsNRoses

9 years ago

I agree with Jeebley, he's too young for you. You're at different stages of you lives, you being a fully grown adult and him just coming to the end of his childhood. I know it's hard when you fall for someone inappropriate, but at your ages such a big age gap is never going to work.

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- Ugluk
  
  9 years ago
  
  Love, if it exists, can't be denied. Let them try it. If it doesn't work, well, are they any different to the majority of people in western civilisation? If it does work, then good for them and may they enjoy a long and happy life together.
  
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  - SkullsNRoses
    
    9 years ago
    
    Normally I would agree with you but 16 and 28 is just not realistic. In 5 years she'll be 33 and probably thinking about marriage and the fact that the clock is ticking if she wants biological children, whereas he'll be 21 and wanting to go to parties, get wasted and enjoy his youth.
    
    Sometimes big age gaps can work, but not when you're as young as 16.
    
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    - Avant-Garde
      
      9 years ago
      
      Couldn't it depend sometimes on culture? From what I have noticed, the average 16 year old, in my country, more than likely they would not be mature enough to be in a relationship with a 28 year old. I know that I certainly wasn't when I was that age. I may have liked to believe that I was, but I am glad that I never found myself in a situation like that.
      
      Again with culture, I am not sure what country they lived in but if they lived in the states, even if the state that they lived in had 16 listed as the age of consent, most people would get the wrong idea of the nature of the relationship. There is a double standard on gender. If it were a 28 year old male with a 16 year old female, they would never hear the end of it. However, when it is the other way around, many people seem to be less judgmental in this way. Society wise, they might not have much of an issue.
      
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tough1

9 years ago

If you like each other then enjoy

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- twist3d
  
  9 years ago
  
  I wish I met an older lady when I was 16...it would have changed my life for the better. Take him...take him to new places he wants to go as a 16 yo
  
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green_boogers

9 years ago

You're a cougar. I like cougars. Stop worrying about society's expectations. Younger men think you are terribly sexy.

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OtherSide

9 years ago

Age is just a number, and laws are just paper. If it feels right for the two of you, then what other people think shouldn't matter.

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fr332B

9 years ago

absolutely go for it. There is nothing legally or morally wrong with it. Just remember the campfire rules. Leave him in better condition then you find him in.

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RearedPyro

9 years ago

You two are at two different points in your life, it probably wont work out the way you imagine it.
He's still a child and you're a fully grown woman. Move on.

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flooshe

9 years ago

I was sixteen not too long ago. I remember wanting to get with jlia Roberts. Age doesn't matter. Just don't tell your mom.

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tripw7

9 years ago

Obviously, you could do him so much good if you let him pursue further life adventures. Some guys can handle early sexual activity even with older gals. Some get tied up with having to do this all the time. You might be able to help him in further education with letting him know that life is what you make of it. Some have a life of sex. Some have a life of being as dedicated as they can to getting a degree and having fun (sex) often. As most of us know, it's needed about 2-3 times a week to keep us balanced. Can you do that?

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tripw7

9 years ago

The problem will be with his family most likely. Of course a 16 year old guy will be eager to have compassionate sex with a older female, however, if his parents are attentive to what their 16 YO is doing up late at night, then this will probably be the big problem.
Thinking back, if I were 16, it would be wonderful to have the experience to be appreciated by an older women, even if it didn't mean that I automatically had sex with her. Of course, you could relieve him in several ways....

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yoongies

9 years ago

well yes! that would be great..., awesome! but the only matter is.., if he loves you too..(?) what do you think?

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Thatguy777

9 years ago

It would be "satutory rape" and I put that in quotes because it wouldn't be rape because no 16 year old guy is going to turn down sex with a cougar. For the sake of your freedom and future I would just move on.

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  I wish I met an older lady when I was 16...it would have changed my life for the better. Take him...take him to new places he wants to go as a 16 yo
  
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JD.Clutch

9 years ago

Go for it. You only live once!

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thegypsysailor

9 years ago

Go for it. Do keep in mind that the law doesn't give a shit if you are a girl fucking an underage guy or Vice Versa. So just imagine what might happen if you get into a fight with this guy, or his parents don't appreciate your fucking their underage son. Not too well thought out there, honey. Oops....

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