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Is it appropriate to disclose that I've I lye ver one sexual partner to my future dates? If so, at what point? If not, what is the best way to avoid the question?
I doubt that anyone sees that as a deal-breaker ...Most people have an issue with people that have had a lot of partners.
One sex partner at age 30? That is not a huge deal. The number is actually pretty impressive for being 30. I know some girls who are in their early 20s and have already been with 15 plus people. One person I know said they lost count at 30 plus people. Try explaining that....
Who gives a fuck? 1 person is not bad or good, 50 isnt bad or good. If you're disease free, what does it really matter? It doesnt.
I would say wait until the subject comes up or until you're comfortable disclosing it.
And just to what end and profit would it be to disclose something like that?
You certainly will not make yourself more appealing to a woman by telling her stuff like that.
"Don't ask, don't tell" seems to be the right thing right now.
If you are a man, don't mention it, avoid this conversation at all costs. It is only going to make you less attractive in a woman's eyes.
If you are a woman, then there's no problem at all. You can talk about it or keep quiet, whatever and whenever you feel like.
If you are homosexual, I don't have any advice for you, because I don't know how those relationships work. Sorry.