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I'm 20 years old, college graduate and just about to have a job, But I have never shown my love to any women that I liked. Because my parents and older brother keeps telling me to keep my priorities straight. What should I do? How long must I wait?
I'm nineteen and have never had a girlfriend.
However, what isn't normal is being a college graduate at the age of twenty.
I personally waited until I was working but you are fine. I didn't date earlier as my family had no money and I felt that I honestly had to pay for everything on a date. To do that though, I had to work and so on so I was a late dater.
The BUD part in BUDTHEWISE, my screen name, is a mockary on how people called me Bud Bundy as I just didn't date when they all would. It kind of stuck so I stayed with it and now my online name is BUD something. Weither Bud or Budthewise and so on.
i think once you've got a job you can pursue girls with a clear conscience. plus girls did a guy that has money a little money to take them out on dates and do nice things for them. you have the right to live your life as you want at any stage.
Who cares what they say? You might be passing up a really good opportunity by listening to this bad advice. I mean, yeah, priorities are good, but that doesn't mean that there can be nothing in your life but work and school. I'm sure you can manage a lady and a job ;)
Try to balance things between finding the one and focusing on your priorities