24 years of searching for the "one", is it normal?

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i'm sure someone will have some comments on what i'm gonna ask but the reality is that i've been searching for the "one" to be in love and yet i havent found any. the reason why i could not make it happen was not because i was so picky person but because i was trying to be humble and not a player. yes. I've been dating some girls so far and once i told them that " i love you" they would leave me with no good reason. so, is that something just normal or I've chosen by God not to have someone to love.

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  • getmein1
    12 years ago

    thx guys for the comments... you have been cheering me up. However,you offering an orange juice to a thirsty person instead of water and i'm really glad for that... i dont really what to say because i have been working on this crazy thing and seeing myself not be able to get something which almost everyone has affecting me in negative way.i even came up with questions asking my self How do i fix a love undone? How i even know if i'm fit to love someone? And when i decide to take that ride can i drive from the passengers side? those are questions left unanswered ..... waht i'm gonna do now is just ignore the fact that i need someone and keep going on. thx againnn guys .

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    You find the one, usually without even looking and somewhere in the relationship when you least expect it, you start over looking any short comings they may have and become blinded by love. Only then does that person become the one!! Good luck with your choices!

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    Some people are better for you than others. One person currently on this planet genuinely is the best person for you. Are you going to meet that person? Probably not. I'm not suggesting you settle for just anything but surely you can be happy with "great" rather than a futile search for "ultimate perfection".

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  • angiednn
    12 years ago

    I am going on 23 and have had one bf for a month... and that was in January this year. 22 years of being single. I know that there will be one person for me. I am also waiting for it to happen. Sometimes more impatiently than other times. I have never had an "I love you" moment but I can't wait for it to happen. I think if you really want a real lasting relationship it will eventually happen. It is just the waiting that makes it suck and makes you wonder if it will ever happen.
    You are not weird basically.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    there is no "the one". everyone who thinks that is dumb. srsly since you'll never know all possible girls in the world you can never tell if she is the one.

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