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I am 22 and have a huge crush on a 15 year old boy. I can't stop thinking about him. I live with my fiance (he's 25) and will be getting married next year. I love my fiance, and know that he will be a good father and a good husband. But I just can't get past being attracted to younger guys!
It is normal for both some females and males to be attracted to young sexual partners.
Personally, I feel that 15 is too young for you, and that you should be more mature than to consider them.
Sixteen and seventeen year olds are always going to be a problem in this regard. When I was in this age group, I had sex with some older females (up to 30 years of age), for which I am grateful, because they taught me many things that a younger female wouldn't. Legally, however, in many places, these practices are illegal. I don't see a problem with this, except that: 1) people talk, 2) it should be kept discreet, 3) all persons (including your partner) should be consenting, 4) all persons need to be tested for STD's and effective birth control methods should be utilized.
Remember that, if you opt for a second sexual partner, then you should allow your fiancé / husband to do the same (fair is fair), and this should be discussed openly with him. You might want to live by the moniker, every woman should have a husband and a young stud and every man should have a wife and a mistress.
Don't get caught. When you're over 30, you should stick with 18 year olds and over.