20 year old with e.d

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Im a 20 year old male. I have a beautiful girlfriend whom I love. Sex can be great at times. But other times my dick doesn't seem to get up. I know that I am attracted to her and she does turn me on. But I just don't understand why it goes soft sometimes before sex. I heard that drugs and anxiety can play a part. I do use marijuana on a frequent basis as well as xanax sometimes when i have bad anxiety. but is that really enough to cause a 20 year old male to become "soft". I really need some help from someone who knows what they are talking about. for the most part my girlfriend has been understanding of this problem. but I can tell it hurts her feelings, because she feels it is her, when its not. Good advice would be appreciated. and are there any over the counter herbs i can buy at like a gas station that would work like Viagra. Which i can take before sex? IIN?

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  • help_is_here
    13 years ago

    I know lots of people that have healthy sex lives and still use drugs. But that doesn't mean the drugs aren't having an effect on your sex life. I would suggest a 30 day test. Stay off drugs for 30 days and see if your problem persists, and if they do after 30 days without using, you should see a doctor

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Your first step needs to be to see your doc and have your prostrate checked. He can help you from there...

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  • oneonone
    12 years ago

    Sounds like she's not exciting or stimulating you enough. At your age you should be going for it two three times a session man. Does your dick work when you see porn? If so you need to trade her in for a dirtier model. Or you could get some one else to fuck her then join in

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