17 year old male to be with a 20 year old who has a 3 year old child

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Right so, i am a 17 year old male. 18 in January. Me and this 20 year old female who has a 3 year old son are getting close. She is on my college course and we get on really well and i constantly chat her up and make her laugh, Everybody else on the college course keep saying that "you'd be great together" and "you two are so cute with each other" and stuff. I was just wondering if it is normal for a 17 year old to be with a 20 year old who has a 3 year old son?

Yes, it is normal 36
No, it is not normal 7
It's a bit weird but go for it 25
Hell no, do not go there 20
Leave it a while till you're 18 20
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  • DiamondGirl
    10 years ago

    Don't do it, she can't get no one else to help her with the kid she's probalbly using u!. Go find a girl with no baggage, you'll thank me later.

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  • Evenios
    10 years ago

    dude get the fuck out of that shit. The last thing i want is a fucking kid. at 17 you shoudnt have to worry about a fucking bastard child unless its your own. you got your whole life ahead of you and the only reason that women wants you maybe is cuz she needs someone to take care of her kid.

    dont go for it. if your good looking at least at all. find someone without a kid.

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  • [email protected]
    10 years ago

    As long as you don't have to support the little bastard or spend your own $ on him,then go for it.

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    • peterr
      10 years ago

      A bit of a prick, aren't you?

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  • sweetcitywoman
    10 years ago

    Run.

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago

    Good job mods.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Take your time and guard your heart.

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    • youareaghost
      10 years ago

      might as well not bother, if you're going to guard your heart.

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        Better safe than sorry especially when it's concerning an older woman with so much responsibility and baggage.

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  • GuessWho
    10 years ago

    It's not exactly normal,
    but if you really love her, there's no reason to hold yourself back over this.

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  • Vern
    10 years ago

    Dude, get out now, I've had two different relationships with women and their kids, I won't make this to long or preach but you will never be the kids father, did I mention kids are expensive. 17, 18, what the F. Live your life, she's had one kid, she might talk you into having one with you, sounds nice and sweet does'nt it ? She leaves you and you pay her child support for 20 years, Women do this for a living. I don't like saying this about a girl I don't know but you put the question out. I am 45 and made those same mistakes and don't like to see you younger guys doing the same. You've got some thinking to do Pal, use your head, Good Luck Kid.

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  • Isabella80s
    10 years ago

    Keep an open mind.

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  • Sinep
    10 years ago

    Wait till you're 18, then think about it seriously..
    This is not a normal matter since she already has a child, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't think about it.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Where is the guy who fucked her and made the kid? These chicks are always easy so fuck her, get her to suck you off and move on!

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    • JohnnyFilth
      10 years ago

      He treated her like shit and hit her and stuff. He doesn't want to ever see his child and no longer wants to be his dad:P

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      • peterr
        10 years ago

        He might as well make a meal out of her. Hey, when I was single I used to fuck single moms every weekend. I found they were easy and if you were nice to the kid you got bonus points that you could redeem for blowjobs. But now I would rather have a guy suck my cock because they like it more and do a better job. Have you ever sucked a cock that you didn't like?

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