28 year old boyfriend attracted to young girls

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I am a 30 year old female who has been in a relationship with a 28 year old man for 3 years. We love eachother very much but just recently I have discoverd something about him that disturbes me. He went to work early one morning & left the computer on. I came downstairs & saw that he had been looking at really young looking girls. I confronted him about it & he admitted that he is attracted to young girls. A bit more talking & he admitted to me that he has gotten off to sexual thoughts of my 14 year old neice. This really bothers me. I have a 9 year old daughter so here in a few years there will be young teens all over the place. I trust him. He has always been honest with me. But the fact that he gets off on thoughts of young girls is very disturbing to me. I just want to know if this is normal so I can either learn to live with it or move out before my daughter becomes a teenager.

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Based on 104 votes (65 yes)
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  • SexuallyTorn
    8 years ago

    Have you ever had an orgasim to a high school boy? Oh you just havent voiced it. so that makes you what, the same no doubt. Guys do that all the time especially from 14-18 attractive girls. last i checked in the bible pregnant at 14 was the norm, lets not let your honest to a fault bf walk the plank on something most people do anyway.

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  • TonyM
    14 years ago

    I wouldn't trust this guy, even if he means well, in time shit could and will happen, dump his ass

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  • Jacqueline
    14 years ago

    That's not normal, and if he's ok and doesn't feel bad about what he's doing then you'd be better off dumping him.

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  • CGFE3
    14 years ago

    I wouldn't trust him! hes sick and perverted

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  • loopylu
    14 years ago

    Personally i do not think this is normal at all, and is alarming. I have just posted a post for myself on here, because i know what to do anymore. I am in a similar situation, though i have no kids.
    I would say u have concern to be worried about this.

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