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Recently found out that my boyfriend is attracted to very young girls....like 13 or 14. He even admitted to me that he has had sexual thoughts about my 15 year old neice. He says all men would agree that this is normal....is he right?
Well, it is not pedophilia because pedophilia is when men are attracted to children who have not even entered puberty.
Most 13 year old girls have entered puberty so they are not children. It is legally not pedophilia. You can research this.
Some places in Japan have 13 as the legal sex age. Old men can sleep with 13 year old girls there. It is normal there and it happens all the time.
I am a 28 year old male and find a lot (but not all) 13 year old girls sexually desireable. It is illegal where I live to act on these desires so I would not do it. If i lived in a place where it was legal.... you bet I would do it and so would millions of men in the world. maybe billions.
It is nature... 100 to 200 years ago... the legal sex age in america was 12. This speeks something about human nature and sexual desires for the youthful. It is natural to feel these things.
It is against the law to act on these desires in most places so I advise your bf NOT to do it with a 13 year old. Tell him he can enroll in a work/exchange program in a Jananese town. There maybe he'll find the young woman he's looking for... the one of his dreams.
As long as you don't act on these thoughts, you're not a bad person. For your own sake and for the sake of innocent children whose bodies no one as the right to use for their own pleasure, it would be best to talk to someone professional so you can get to the root of why you feel this and you can move on with your life and be happy.
It IS normal for people to be attracted to 13 year olds. To have those feelings is very normal, but it doesn't change the facts of what would happen if he acted on those feelings. He'll just have to be satisfied with looking. jebodiah, krenn and XxINCHAINSxX all had good honest answers.
Its normal, since teen girls are very cute and sexy. Schoolgirl and lolita fetish are some of the most common in the world.
What you should do is get some props and play "sexy schoolgirl", "naughty babysitter", etc with him and if you can play some of these scenarios, it will be a really hot time and it will be a way to channel that energy back in your relationship.
its pretty normal,most of men in the world feel attracted to young girls 12,13...women in general dont think its normal because them are not in the men's body, they dont understand.
I do not think it is right. If my boyfriend told me that I would freak out. I am disgusted that some men think it's normal because it's sick.
I too, like looking at young attractive girls. But I would never commit an act of child molestation unless it was definitely legal and consensual. The fact is, we (men) are hardwired to reproduce, and girls are VERY fertile, (The young 13-29). It is NATURAL to want to reproduce in a way that would almost guarantee continuation of your genes. It is sad that people think that because you have different sexual needs than most people you are evil or sick. I would hope you allow him his privacy and encourage him not to make himself a felon, as that would ruin any chance of his of being happy.
As long as you don't act on these thoughts, you're not a bad person. For your own sake and for the sake of innocent children whose bodies no one as the right to use for their own pleasure, it would be best to talk to someone professional so you can get to the root of why you feel this and you can move on with your life and be happy.
not at all sounds like hes a nonse and is using the " all men do it " to cover his tracks
I think it IS normal, but not a good thing.
I can't help those fantasies either.
It's normal for sexually mature men to be attracted to sexually mature women.
Most 28 year old men are sexually mature.
Most 13 year old women are sexually mature.
Where in nature do other species wait for years after sexual maturity before they start to procreate? I believe it's only humans, and as mentioned earlier, only recently.
I recall hearing that it was customary in biblical times for young Jewish girls to be married off at an age of 12-13 years old. That's likely what would have happened to the virgin Mary. I also recall hearing that Joseph the groom was described as an old man.
there nothink worng with girls of that age that rich there priem but any more then thinknig about themn is worng unless there deep love on bofe sides that what i think any away
No it not normal he is a peadophile tell him to keep it to him self and don't act on them