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hi i'm a 20 year old extremely non religious female who grew up in a non religious town and still haven't kissed a boy or went on a date.
(i am straight and i am horny)
when i read this i didnt bother to read any of the other comment cause i want you to listen to me, and only me. that is 100%% fine. there is some f*ck** up sh*t on here and this is 100%% fine. you'll get it one day. and at least you know that you dont have any STDs lol. just playing.
Don't worry. I'm 23 and never kissed anyone, or had a girlfriend. I'm a nice guy, not ugly (I don't think) and personable. I just haven't had luck in that area.
am i really go to have to be the one to do this guh o.k. cheeck all that apply:
fat
ugly
smoker
a bitch
bad braeth
more then two you can see why
I'm on the same case and non of them apply I am a model, perfectly fit on my ideal weight and a fat% ideal for an athlete,student of environmental engineering with and IQ higher than The estimated for Einstein, don't smoke, really decent and caring
Never had a bf, never kissed, and obviously virgin btw I'm also straight and horney
What can you say about it?
Please reply
hahaha MEAN...but so trueee
4 the girl:
maybe its just your attitude idk, good luck with that
I'm an 18 year old male, fairly attractive, no george clooney but not ugly, very intelligent and respectful to women, and speak both German and english. Sounds like someone who'd have had good luck with that stuff, yes?
Actually not. i've had one semi-girlfriend, we never kissed except a peck on the lips, and I have never had a sexual experience. From what I understand many other people are like this.
You are normal. Many people such as us are like this. At least you live in an unreligous town, I am an atheist and live in the damn bible belt.
I'm 20 in three days and I've not been kissed or went on a date either. Yeah, I'm not the best looking guy in the world, and I'm pretty lazy, so it's no surprise.
But hey, where do you live. If you're in Tucson at some point, maybe we can hook up.
I'm 44 and still haven't kissed. Kissing is something special and I think you onley can enjoi it whit some one you trully love and know longer. I still haven't found that one but hope I will some day. So your still young and I think you have time enough to surch for the right guy or girl to experiment whit. So don't do it becouse you never did it but do it whit the persone you think is special to you.
I used to worry that I'm not normal. I'm 19. Never had a girlfriend. And I know people judge me for it, too. Even my parents. But you know what? It really doesn't even matter what anyone thinks if I'm alright with it. I know I'm the best person I can be. Someday, somehow, I'll meet a girl who'll realise that and we'll have a great life together. The rest of the world can do what they like.
Sounds like your not sending out the right signals might help if u wear short skirt black tights heels low cut top might get a different reaction from boys in town most fellas like tarty hot not plain Jane
More than meets the eye (or entry) here.
Not to be cruel, but the very first reply made sense to me. It is INCREDIBLY easy for a woman to get sex (or any degree of sex, such as kissing), out in the world. Maybe you are doing something to avoid it and prevent it from happening?
Kissing is tremendous fun, and an art.
haha! I went through a slutty phase of my life and now I am completely reluctant to attracting a man. You might just not be ready for a kiss yet. Or you just gotta find the right boy to kiss! It'll happen, hun!
Maybe you're just afraid of kissing now that you're 20 years old and it hasn't happened yet.I know,because that was me.
I didn't get kissed until I was 20,I'm 25 now and at one point i just figured it was never going to happen.
Sooooo,here's the deal love.Kissing is just kissing.Seriously,there's nothing to it.It's very easy.You just do what you feel.
The guy won't be able to tell you've never done it before because some people have kissed plenty of people and are bad kissers.So I can promise you experience doesn't equal guaranteed good.And therefore lack of experience doesn't equal guaranteed bad either.
So,if you're nervous about him "knowing you've never kissed anyone"rest assured,he won't be able to tell.
Just get drunk(to relax),flirt,talk,if that goes well get touchy feely,and really lay it on thick so he knows you want him to kiss you.
Good luck!!!!
(And it's not because you're ugly that you've never been kissed hun.It's just because you're overly nervous and/or shy and making too big of a thing about it)
You'd be surprised at the people who are older and never been kissed.Upon initially meeting me on here,I know everyone would think I had gotten kissed for the first time waaaaay before 20.
if the issue is just that you're ugly... well you're gonna have to find some trainwreck of a man and rub your neglected vaj all over him.
or buy a vibrator.
im 22 and the only people ive kissed were my (girl) friends.. hah.. and one male friend. i am waiting to have a boyfriend, though, and those were just fun experiments.
wait for the right person, and dont just do it because you feel like you should, but if you want to even though you dont like the guy, go to clubs and look really hot and slutty.
I'm 22 and my first kiss was with a girl! but it was great! lol..Ok the point don't get drunk if u dont want to kiss a guy..
Oh u can make a T that say kiss me or never been kissed and someone will def do it!
it's not abnormal it's just the wayy you see guys, you need to stop seeing them as friends and just go for it, i too had this problem, then i noticed my brother got all the girls as long as he wasn't their best friend but instead he just flirted and dropped hints but never got to know many of the girls deep down inside, now he's married and happy. i began to act more like him when i was about 17 now i'm 20 and no problems with girls in that way
My first kiss was when I was 25, so your case is harly surprising. How about me?
It will come when it comes, don't think too much about it and you'll be fine.
is it a really small town??? maybe you should go to the town next door to look for men...
someone also suggeted the club which is great or dive bars. guys always seem to try and kiss you at dive bars.
go clubbing. come on to someone most clubs are full of people trying to get laid
it's fine. i'm 18 and the only kissing i've done is when i was drunk and i kinda regret it. though, now i kinda crave it, grr.
You could get a male hooker, hah, but you could also wait for someone who really likes you for you. And you could practice on your arm/hand for kissing. or watch hours of porn. :) good luck.
dont feel bad before i kissed a girl i went on you tube porn sites and saw like 8 hours of ppl kissing so i would know what to do. you should find a guy. but not to be mean if your big as in over weight or not atractive then that can be a problem
The fact that your non religious has no bearing on the matter there must be more to it than that
Hey i'm 22 and I have a BABY and I don't even know how to kiss, my ex never showed me how, so don't feel bad.
Take a shovel take a fat dump on your lawn in broad day light while the neighbors are watching. Then use the shovel and fart all over it and spew crap everywhere. Then shovel up your crap
Lets face facts OK Darling,
Your probably f*cking ugly. Thats why.
Peace Out