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Hello, okay so I have a really high sex drive. When I have a boyfriend I need to have sex 5-6 times a day, and for some reason I still want more. I even have a dildo that I use all the time. A lot of people say I'm a nympho, or I may be a sex addict but I don't think I'm either of those two.. Any ideas? Most importantly is this normal?
I don't think it's at all normal if I go by the women I've known intimately. In the beginning it's sex all the time, but once they're secure that they've got you it tapers off to a bit more manageable number (thank god or all us guys would lose our jobs, because, let's face it, we guys would much rather screw than work, right?). Then again there are a few of us, well me anyway, cause I don't discuss this shit with other guys, who would be happier having sex 20 times or more a week. I've never found a gal who'd do that after the first year or so. And when you live on a boat, there's no end to the places you can have sex!
I really wish you the best of luck finding a guy who'll keep up with your desires, and I would sincerely suggest that you don't settle for anything less, unless you want a relationship that doesn't satisfy your physical needs. That way leads to unhappiness or infidelity, both unpleasant and detrimental to a relationship.
Might I recommend getting a few boyfriends? Ever wonder why a woman gets loud while having good sex? Hint hint, its not to say "go away we are having sex over here."
You are somewhat unique, but not the only one. There are others and only with time and much seeking will you find a idea partner. But most have trouble finding a great partner, don't give up and enjoy the hunt.
This might sound a bit cheesy, but maaaaybe there is something else you need in your life that the extra sex has been filling. I know from experience that there are a few things in my own life that I am very unsatisfied with that I have unconsciously tried to replace with other things. Don't write it off immediately, just something to think about.
You have an unusually high sex-drive, which is at the opposite end of the libido spectrum to a-sexuality.
Neither extremes are common, so the number of potential partners who match your desire in the bedroom is small (though not tiny).
That means you'll have a harder time finding a guy that is an 'exact fit' - which means either you'll have to be patient in your search or learn to compromise (e.g. having less sex than is ideal but finding a great man to have it with).
Either way you're going to have to learn to cope with your sexual frustration (masturbation should certainly help).