19, single, virgin

I'm 19, never had a girlfriend, have only guys friends

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Based on 90 votes (75 yes)
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  • 30 single virgin never had a gf either. Feel better now?

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    • I'mGonnaPickYourAvocadosOldMan

      "LOL you're pathetic"

      -you, being a hypocrite

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      • Shut it troll. What happened to your question, did it get reported?

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  • mimihenderson

    A lot of my friends are 20 and still virgins, honestly don't rush it because it will not be as good as you think it will be

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  • rayb12

    Um yeah, I lost mine at 19, still didn't have a girlfriend, and wish I had waited.
    So yeah nothing to worry about at all.

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  • Decorum

    Well, I am not sure if it is "normal", but it is definitely nothing wrong with it. Generally, I think most people lose their virginity in their mid teens or so, but some are just "late bloomers" and some are just cowards.

    I myself am 24 and still a virgin. i have never even been kissed and am starting to think I'll never have a girlfriend and I am learning to live with it. I know I am not very attractive and that most women probably never seen me as anything but a "nice and fun person" or a friend. Due to this I am also highly afraid of rehection and never approach girls.

    Lately, I have started to work on it. I've been going out a lot and have found everything gets much easier when I am sober (alcohol makes me depressed and being sober I feel more comfortable because I know everyone else is drunk and won't remember shit). Now I can dance without thinking about what girls think about me, but I am yet to approach one trying to dance with her lol. I fon't really like nightclubs or crowded places, but I know I need to practise and, unfortunately, nightclubs are the best place for it. :p

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  • Emarmake

    It's totally normal. I was nineteen, never had a boyfriend, never had sex, and didn't have any close guy friends. However, that all changed within the year. Now I have a boyfriend, lost my virginity, and have three close guy friends. It's all a matter of putting yourself out there. You're nineteen, go to clubs, bars, parties! Meet new people. Make more friends. Go be young and have fun. This is the time in your life when some of the biggest changes can happen. Good luck buddy.

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