30! never had a date or a girlfriend

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I'm 30 years old now and I still don't know why I can't get a girlfriend, let alone how to get one. I used to try to approach women (never had any horrible failures), but always with no success. I don't think I'm that ugly. I've been approached by women who have quickly lost interest. Maybe they not into the things that interest me, but I'm interested in everything, yet I'm incapable of social interaction because no one really has any interest in me. How can I change any of this? How can I hold a womans attention or keep her interested enough to do any type of activity with me?

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  • kwhatever
    14 years ago

    I think that you don't want it as much as you think you do. If you really wanted it THAT much, it would happen. Don't worry.

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  • browndoll
    14 years ago

    join a dating site

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Loser

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  • ~L~
    13 years ago

    You might just be a minger, that's all.

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    • starkitty
      13 years ago

      what's that?

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    • Drahmin
      13 years ago

      Minger?

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  • zii
    14 years ago

    your ugly. becuase if you were hott, you wouldn't have to approach women ever. haven't you ever heard about how hott people don't know how to approach becuase they don't have to.

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    • Schythl
      14 years ago

      Oh, THAT'S good advice.

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  • andrian007
    14 years ago

    Hello there!

    I think your self-confidence has taken a big hit and because of this, it shows in your interaction with other women.

    As far as I'm concerned, this isn't such a big deal. You need to learn how to raise your self-confidence and love yourself for who you are. And don't be afraid to talk about it with your friends. If they are truly your friends,they will help you out. The easiest way to get a conversation going is to simply ask about the other person. Everyone loves talking about themselves, we know this. So this can't be that bad. All the best!

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Insecurity is the biggest turn off.

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    • tampabayallstar
      14 years ago

      Well said.

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  • wang35
    14 years ago

    Well, there are plenty of women and a crap load of them looking to get married and have babies dude. Find a common interests with women. Find someone that has the same values and interests that you do. Be yourself. I say this because why the hell would you want to fake who you are for the rest of your life if you got married? It's best to find out who the other person is. Ask a chick out, that it. Show some interest in the other person. Let them talk about themselves. Ask questions. And ask are there weird habits that you have or things that may bug people. Have self esteem dude. Your a man.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Find out what specifically about you is turning woman off so shortly after meeting them. You are definitely doing something that is an immediate turn-off - and either you don't know about it, or you are not being honest about it.

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  • ComboBreaker
    14 years ago

    You just gotta keep trying. If you're interesting enough, you'll succeed. You have to be fun too though. It realy depends on who you are trying to attract. If you find out some of their interests then it will make it easyer. Show interest in what she likes, but dont drown her in your companie either. Give her space, send signals that you like her with compliments and jokes, small talk, body language and of course... dont be to stright foward. Hope this helped a little, good luck.

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  • Geneva5
    12 years ago

    You are obviously fat and gay - you don't stand much of a chance -maybe find some toilet guys to suck you off. $1 super cheap homo ball drinkers - might as well give up and smoke the cral pipe - cod you really are a homo faggot.

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