19, male. never kissed or dated. feel the need to find *anyone*. iin?

I don't have anyone in particular that I like, but I have become fixated on finding someone, anyone, to be with. I'm sure this isn't healthy but I'm already afraid of being left behind.

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  • Tealights

    It's normal; however, learn about condoms and how to wear them properly before you venture out there. Also, don't let anyone make you feel as if you're worthless.

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  • Resort

    I'm 20 years old and I'm a virgin too. I have no experience and I'm too wish to have too. So you are not alone

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  • AnonymousGuy19

    Thank god, bro I feel you I just turned 19 a little overy 3 months ago and I have yet to have sex or kiss a girl tbh I am really sad about it but having someone else in the same boat gives me a little bit of hope. I don't really know if it's normal but I am the only person I know that's my age and is still a virgin so for now I am hoping to have my first kiss before I turn 20.

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  • mtmarried

    Do not get desperate and lower your standards. There is no rule book saying when, where, at what age, how often, to what extent you have to do anything.
    We are all unique. When the right person comes along... go for it.
    19 is extremely young. Enjoy your life. Take it one day at a time. A lot of things change when you "have somebody". As good as it can be you will never just be you again. Unless you break-up of course but that is no fun!

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    • Jeroe

      Hey mate
      I have pretty much the same problem, I'm just 18.
      The fear is that when you are older everyone around you is more experienced than you are, relationships, kissing, sex. At our age it's the time to learn those things and if you don't, I think things can get pretty awkward and embarrassing if you can't do those things.

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      • mtmarried

        It's not a problem lol.
        Find the right person and you will get all the experience you need and it will be worth it.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Care.

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  • burningass

    Don't find love, let the love find you.btw, ur still young and you can focus first on your studies or anythng else u wanna do,like, ur hobbies(playing soccer,instruments.,etc...). Don't worry too much about that. God is preparing someone You really deserve

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  • burningass

    Don't find love, let the love find you. Btw, ur still young and you can focus first on your studies, or anything that you wanna do.

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  • Ellenna

    It's normal, just don't let yourself be so desperate you get yourself involved with someone you'll regret later

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