32 m/people are afraid of me/intimidated easily

I'm not really big sized (5-8"), flabby in the middle and don't look particularly threatening. I haven't had a fight in 8 years (although sometimes itching for one out of boredom).

It's unusual but when I walk into a room, I usually get what I want just by being forceful about it. I don't abuse my privilege as I strongly believe in fair play. One of my friends said it's exactly my sense of fair play and justice which scares people. I don't really relent until I get what is rightfully. I'm not afraid of confrontation with higher authorities at workplace, talk back to police officers (although always polite).

My role models would be people like Douglas McArthur, General Patton and other tough-talking, take no nonsense from anybody army men. I hate wimpy men, the sort who carry their girlfriends purse and are too weak to stand for themselves.

I'm normally nice around women but only on my terms. I call them out on any attention-seeking, slutty behavior.

The last time I was in a relationship was 6 years ago when I still didn't appear so intimidating around people..most girls steer a wide berth around me out of fear I might slap them across the cheek or worse. In reality, I'd never hit a woman.

The only women I'm able to attract are black or Muslim who are strong enough to handle my aggression.

I do love being myself, just wished people saw me for the friendly protective person I really am.

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Based on 16 votes (7 yes)
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Comments ( 4 )
  • Steve2.0

    You sound like the biggest, most sloppy, steaming bag of...fun ever.

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  • insanebotv21

    Perhaps it is your mannerism that makes people wary about you. Like your way of reinstating what you believe is right to those that fail to meet it.

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  • Squeakers

    you sound like an ass, maybe people cave in to whatever it is you want just to get you to go away? i think i it normal. people usually are motivated to act by whatever sense of right/wrong that they perceive.

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  • Short4Words

    The people that matter are the ones who don't make snap judgements and if they stick around long enough they'll see you've got a protective side.

    But it sounds like you're playing a type and not being entirely true to yourself.

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