18 falling for my parents best friend

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I am an 18 year old girl and I live with my parents. Our third floor is where my parents best friend lives. He is 34. I have known him a few years and I automatically found him attractive.
With time and as I matured, I became friends with him too. We watch movies together, eat food, have fun days together. It used to be just pure friendship. But suddenly recently our time together has increased. My parents went away for a weekend and we spent that time together. I confided in him about my boy problems and he began to hug me. I made the first move by holding him closer . Since then, things have progressed and it almost seems like we're a couple. Nothing has been directly said about feelings and we haven't done anything sexual. But things have changed. I feel tension and we always sit closer and we sort of kissed each others necks when saying goodbye. I think he wants more but knows its wrong. Im falling for him and im worried. We will never get to be a normal couple. Do I ask him how he feels? Also dont say im too young for these feelings. Leave any comments please.

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  • Narkin
    11 years ago

    At 18 you are old enough to make your own decisions and mistakes and then live with the consquences. You need to take a step back and really evaluate your's and his relationship because you are at an impressionable age, probably sexually inexperienced and being only 18 are exactly what a lot of 34 year old lonely men want.

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    • Ccxoxo
      11 years ago

      No I am sexually experienced, it has nothing to do with that. And he isn't really lonely either, he has had many girlfriends. :p

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      • Darkoil
        11 years ago

        Remember if you do decide to go down that road then there will be no turning back if you change your mind. This has the potential to destroy his relationship with your parents as well so it is important you really believe he feels the same way before you decide to pursue it.

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  • KBSH
    11 years ago

    Evaluate the relationship. Talk to him. Clear things out. Give it a try. If it doesn't work, just remain being friends.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    Go for it.

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    Horrible idea.

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