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hello! i'm twenty and i've never had a boyfriend nor have i ever gone on a date :S :( i'm not ugly or anything, just shy... really really shy. so now im getting a little worried... is that normal?
Yea trust me you are normal! I have friends who aren't even that shy, are 20 too, and still haven't had boyfriends yet. I think that it doesn't matter so much if you don't like to talk that much, because there are many guys who like that. I think the most important thing is improving your own happiness and getting involved in things that you love doing. You will be surprised at how many guys you can attract just by doing things that make you happy, while being open to meeting new people.
Hey dont rush take your time until you meet mr. right, you don't just want any loser now do you...
I'm not even shy and I'm 21 and haven't a boyfriend. I'm not ugly either, it's just about finding someone that's right
this is a weird answer that no one else will give but whatever lol:
when i started in high school i was popular i guess... but shy around boys, so i never got a boyfriend or even got with any guys. i was popular with the other girls, and even told that some of the guys liked me, but nothing ever happened
after my first year in high school, i moved school and decided that i wasnt going to be shy, i acted like normally around the boys there as i did with the girls, and sure enough i got a boyfriend soon enough and then i had a love life :)
not saying you should loose your friends, but meet some new people, dont be shy, worst thing that will happen is you will never see them again, because chances are the boys you already know think you are shy, and it might be hard to change their opinions, so if you make a new friend, dont come of as shy :)
i think you should get out more like go to a club then you might find ur mr-right! most guys like shy girls anyway so theres nothing wrong with bein shy, but i know how you feel coz it feels horrible bein shy... just let your hair down and have some fun!! XxX
Most men love shy girls. But if you really want to get out of that shy coffin. Take your girlfriends and go to a club. Drink and relax. Dance and you will see the line waiting for your love.
honey you need to let people know that your not dat shy girl who is scared to date let them know that dis gurl wants a man to cuddle and play around with and let them know there is a rebel side to dat "shy"girl
good luck