19 and still single

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Well I'm already 19 and i'm still single... The thing is, it's not like i never had the chance to be in a realtionship, i've had my share of confessions and guys liking me, but i'm against going out with someone who i dont have feelings for.Besides i felt like all they wanted was kissing or sex or whatever. I wonder if maybe some day someone will ever fall in love with me... I like football, beer, I loooove videogames.... I love reading... I'm fairly good looking and girly... One would think at least one guy would be serously intrestes in me but this is sero usly making me wonder if there's something wrong with me :( like no one will ever love me... You know being happy just by holding hands or stuff like that... Something more than just "sex"

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    "but i'm against going out with someone who i dont have feelings for."

    This is good.

    Instead of leading someone on for like a year and then being like oh oops it appears i don't like you after all.

    Good for you.

    I hope you find someone that you have feelings for.

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    • cat753
      11 years ago

      Thanks :)

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    You will never develop feelings for a person if you do not give them a chance. If you wait to have feelings for a person, you may have lost time and be in the friend zone. You need to date in order to see where the potential is.

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  • blue_burr
    11 years ago

    U got that Xbox live gggguuurll!!!?? I'm of the female gender as well and I need some cool new gamer buddies.

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  • justsomekidfromcanada
    11 years ago

    You sound like a cool girl. Don't let bother you. Until finding a boyfriend is a priority in your life, just let things happen as they happen. It'll work out, trust me.

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  • cat753
    11 years ago

    Thank you everyone, your comments cheered me up :P

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  • JadeyGirl9
    11 years ago

    You will find someone! Someone is out there all for you, it just takes patience to find them ;)

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    • cat753
      11 years ago

      Aw thanks C: I sure hope so

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    Easy to find friends, but much harder to find love. Love is usually found when not looking for it, but you have to talk to people to let them get to know the real you, before they can fall for you!

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  • pinkskull92
    11 years ago

    I am 20 and a single girl never had a boyfriend. All the guys i have ever met just want sex. It makes me so sad. I just want someone to hang out with on the weekend. To cuddle and to be silly with. Sick of being alone.

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    • 8beforeseven
      7 years ago

      Dont be a prude

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  • sYki
    11 years ago

    psst.. ignore the stereotypes, it makes it harder for guys like me.

    Some girls and guys are only looking for sex and some girls and guys want relationships.

    I'm a guy and I can relate. I've turned down sexy girls cause I think they just want to use me for sex and just assume that I want to fuck them cause I'm a guy and they're sexy. I tried it, it's not for me but if they give a good reason to fuck them I'd consider it. I want a healthy sexual relationship with a girl yes, but mostly I want a sweetheart to cuddle with and care for. Mid to late 20s you'll find more people like this, maybe consider a slightly older guy if you really can't wait, it's completely normal.

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  • Severus'sDaughter19
    11 years ago

    I'm 19 and single as well. But I like it that way. :)

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  • dontgiveup:)
    11 years ago

    I'm 18 and single too.:) and I too want someone who loves me for me, and not just because he wants sex. Good for us!:)

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