25 and still at home...
Okay so I don't know where to start but here we go. I am a 25 year old, hard working young professional still living at home. I've read a few posts on this but my situation is a little different.
I left my old life, girlfriend, and dead end job about 5 years ago to move to a new province. I'm happy about the move because it changed my life around for the better. Quit doing drugs found a respectable job. But now I've been supporting both my mother and step father for the better part of those years. They are both capable of working, their just lazy or un motivated I'm not sure.
So.. Because things have been tight financially my social life is virtually non existent. Being that we're in a new province I left all my friends behind also. So I have been basically doing nothing except working. I'd really like to move out but I don't want to leave them stranded with nothing. I get treated and told that I act like I'm 12, even though I am the one who gets up and goes to work everyday. I hand over my pay checks completely and never expect anything from it and yet I'm still disrespected..
My step father tells me I need to do something with my life, that I could never succeed on my own and I feel like their the problem. I'm never allowed to go out after work, not allowed to make any friends and a constant liar. I've been flirting with this girl at work and I would love to ask her out (not to get my dick wet) she's a good girl but I feel like it's just out of the question because of my life. It wouldn't be fair to bring her in to my situation. But it's not fair to me because I'm putting my whole life on hold for them. It's getting to the point where I just wanna leave for work one morning and never go back. I feel like their taking advantage of me and their not even trying to make the situation any better.
So my question is bloggers, is this normal? What should I do..