23 and still a virgin even though i had a chance.

Ok, so I'm 23 and still a virgin. The problem is I'm actually a fairly attractive guy. However, I'm a bit shy, and very quiet. I'm a man of very few words.

Anyways, that's not what this is about. My best friend (who's a girl and we used to have a thing for each other a long time ago) offered to have sex with me just to get it over with. However when it came down to it, I couldn't get an erection. She kissed me for like 2 minutes and then pulled down my pants and started stroking. But it never got hard. I felt embarrassed and went to the bathroom to try myself. But I just couldn't get it hard. I eventually came while I was limp.

Do you think it's just first time jitters and that I was too nervous? My best friend used to be very hot but at the time this happened she gained a bit of weight and I wasn't completely sexually attracted to her, yet emotionally I guess I was. Is this normal?

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Based on 14 votes (9 yes)
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  • peachfuzz

    fuck i was gonna bone this chick and i couldnt get a boner so i just made out with her and fingered her some.

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  • Ellagrace

    Honestly, if I was the girl I would feel horrible with myself offering to "get it out of the way"
    I'm not saying sex is holy etc. However, does age REALLY matter?

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  • stillcurious

    Normal. You were just nervous. It happened to me when I was seventeen.

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