23 and still a virgin even though i had a chance.
Ok, so I'm 23 and still a virgin. The problem is I'm actually a fairly attractive guy. However, I'm a bit shy, and very quiet. I'm a man of very few words.
Anyways, that's not what this is about. My best friend (who's a girl and we used to have a thing for each other a long time ago) offered to have sex with me just to get it over with. However when it came down to it, I couldn't get an erection. She kissed me for like 2 minutes and then pulled down my pants and started stroking. But it never got hard. I felt embarrassed and went to the bathroom to try myself. But I just couldn't get it hard. I eventually came while I was limp.
Do you think it's just first time jitters and that I was too nervous? My best friend used to be very hot but at the time this happened she gained a bit of weight and I wasn't completely sexually attracted to her, yet emotionally I guess I was. Is this normal?