18 and no girlfriend

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WTF!! I'm 18 years old and have had a ton of friends that are girls but no actual girlfriend relationships, is this normal. Never even kissed or dated either... crap. Should I kill myself?

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64% Normal
Based on 55 votes (35 yes)
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  • mk2331
    13 years ago

    Maybe one of those girls that's your friend can end up being something more in the future. You never know man, so don't give up. Hey, I'm 19, a sophomore in college, and I'm in the same boat as you: never kissed, had a girlfriend, sex, you name it. Keep your head up.

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  • MewMew
    13 years ago

    You should not even think about killing yourself.
    I was seventeen when I had my first boyfriend.
    Before that I thought I'd never have one, but people kept saying "There's someone out there for you."
    I gave up on that phrase and said fuck it, but I should've listened because now I have a boyfriend that I love and he lives me back.
    In time, you'll find someone PERFECT for you, trust me.
    Don't be so pessimistic, be positive and patient. That goes a long way.

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  • Maaa114
    7 years ago

    Normal. Your just a looser. Loosers are normal.

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  • Lonely2
    10 years ago

    I was like that ...try to really figure out the reason...it could be anything from social phobia nd anxiety...to low sex drive...to low self esteem or even not really wanting one....most reasons can be improved if you know the reason

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  • bookman
    12 years ago

    I'm 23 and no girlfriend :P is there a hitman I can call?

    but seriously over the years I learned what my flaws were and I am working on fixing them and I am getting better results(I was clingy, annoying, too nice, etc)

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  • Croxalis
    13 years ago

    Well you shouldnt kill urself...that would be prety fucking stupid...so what if u havent kissed a girl yet...Its not like the world is gona end F_F

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  • Savmagic
    13 years ago

    What! No do not kill yourself! It will happen soon and it'll be a thousand times more meaningful than anything that those of us who started early have experienced. And meaning is ultimately what are all seeking.

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  • TheBoss92
    13 years ago

    I am the Exact same person dude. I am 18 and never had a girlfriend, date, kiss, or sex. I have given up. If a girl out there finds me attractive or wants to date, I will go for it.

    My advice is try to get involved in activites, Start conversations, and try some other ways to find some dates. Good Luck!

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  • steph19913
    13 years ago

    Sweetie don't kill yourself over something that stupid you will date just give it time some people it takes time others it doesn't just don't do anything stupid it will happen

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  • MewMew
    13 years ago

    loves*

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