17 and never had a boyfriend ?

I'm curious and I would really appreciate your opinions on this matter. I'm a 17 years old female, 5 feet 8 inches tall, and fortunate enough to possess an attractive physique. I've received many compliments on my appearance and attracted quite a few older guys. However, first kiss, first boyfriend, and relationship dramas are "the undiscovered country" of my life. Meaning to say that I never experienced them before. I was voted the most natural comedian in my English class, awarded as the most accomplished volunteer in my high school with more than 300 service hours a year, sat score of 2300, a 5 on the ap calculus bc exam, etc, very fond of cars, watches, finance, and politics (not so much on sport, video games are welcome) and thus enjoy such discussions. I actually invested in bitcoins, penny stocks, and received 300% roi. I believe that I'm funny, attractive and enjoy a wide variety of interests. I accept the weirdest and craziest ideas with an open mind because chances are, those will benefit me in the future one way or another; it never hurts to listen. Because of my family circumstances, I've been the pillar of my family and because of that, I developed a strong sense of self-identity, character, and confidence over time. I'm now currently waiting for a soulmate who will join me in the climbing the ladder to success, establishing a hedge fund and introducing new programs in third world countries's corporations, especially in the hospital and casino sectors. Ah sorry, I'm getting off topic and this is already long so my question is: what is the best way to meet my soulmate? More socializing? Fate? And how will I know if he is the right one? Do I have to spend time with him? If so, how long? I still do not understand why guys tend to avoid using their pickup lines on me, and most approach me timidly. I've been told that I look too intimidating (my present best friends said that I have an unapproachable aura and invisible bubble around me the first time we met) how can I fix it? I was unaware of such situation; It's the way I look, and if they don't approach and talk to me, they'll continue to have that impression. With my current relationship status, is it normal? I don't mean to bombard you with tons of questions(please don't feel obligated to answer them all), it's just that I'm really not familiar with this and if you're still reading up to this point, thank you for your time.