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im 19 and i have a really flat chest, i hate it, its so embarrasing. im always too scared to get into any serious relationships or anything because i dont want any guys to see me naked because most guys like big boobs and will think that im not normal! :(
Hey I'm an average guy, and I'm attracted to alot of flat chested girls.
Loads of guys love small boobs I assure you.
No back problems or sag later either.
Don't worry about it so much. Your boobs are attached to you, not you to them.
To the original poster, I might be in the minority, but I find flat chested women extremely attractive. I dated a girl in college who, like you, was very self-conscious about her tiny boobs. But I found them an incredible turn-on. I liked playing with her nipples, caressing the soft skin, tracing my fingers and kissing along the contours of her ribs, collarbone, armpit and especially the deliciously fine lines of her almost-nonexistent breasts. And ever since then, that has been my preference, by far. With a group of guys, one of them may comment on a well-endowed woman, and the other guys will nod approvingly. Well, I am the one who is furtively (and longingly!) checking out her less-endowed sisters.
Please please please be proud of who you are! Walk with your head high and shoulders back, and be assured that some of us out here find you incredibly attractive. The confidence in how you carry yourself is a bigger attractant than your body type, anyway :)
Most people have problems with self image. Being scared to have a serious relationship because of your breast size is quite extreme. Save sex for only serious relationships, so by the time you get to that point, the guy will already be in love with you, which means you'll always look beautiful to him.
If that's not a consolation, everyone has different preferences. Personally I like girls who are more flat chested, they're so much nicer an easier to cuddle. Big boobs get in the way.
My best friend is 27 and has a 34A chest. She thinks she's too small too, but her hubby loves her, and she will never have saggy boobs, so it's all good :) Not to mention, no back problems in the future from heavy boobs!
I am a breast man. I love breasts. And conventional wisdom usually says that means you like large breasts, but this is not true. I like small to medium breasts and petite women, The reason that you feel self conscious is because you live in a world saturated with unhealthy images of the ideal body image for women. You have to understand that these media depictions are so pervasive in our consumer driven society that they seem like they are completely natural and normal, while they are actually socially constructed. Trust me, no matter what body type you are, no matter how skinny or fat, short or tall, ugly or beautiful you are there will be some one who finds you incredibly attractive. And if your lucky, he might even be a nice guy. Although most of us are pricks..
you'd be suprised i have pretty endowed breast but like i wish i was a little more flat chested due to convenience it is easier you dont have to wear a bra all the time you can get away with a sports bra... the grass is always greener just work with what you have
Some guys really dont care about boob size at all. I have small boobs and everyone ive dated didnt care, so dont worry!
all people are self consience about something physical even the prettist. If you asked anyone they would have something to sya about how they'd change there look. concentrate on whats on the inside.
You're totally normal, and believe me, I have big boobs and I'd give anything for small boobs and so would all my friends that have big boobs! To any guy that's worth your time, the size of your boobs will not matter.
I imagine your chest size is completely normal, some girls get large breasts, some girls develop smaller ones. I suppose it all depends on your body size/shape.
If you're a small size (US 2/4/6, UK 8/10), it wouldn't be surprising. If you're a larger girl, then maybe there is a possibility of under development. If the latter is the case, it could be worthwhile speaking to a medical professional... could be something like a lack of hormones.
Socially speaking... boys do NOT just like big boobs... Im 26 and i've dated girls of all sizes and I can't honestly say i've preferred a particular boob size! Some guys prefer small, some guys prefer large... some guys prefer just average!
Boys will like confidence, the appearance that you are happy with yourself... so you should think about that being your priority... it will make you happier with yourself and boys will fancy you more as a by product!!!
If someone really cares about you the size of your chest will not matter. Besides when you get old your chest will still be cute and perky while others will be hanging to their knees.
What are you talking about? Flat chested girls are the best! Why would you want some fatty tissue on your chest that's going to sag worse than santa's belly in thirty years anyway?
dont feel bad, if you find a guy your age or any age that DON'T want to see you naked, then he's gay, well unless you're ugly too, if thats the case then goodluck to ya!!
Most guys care about a lot of things much more than they care about that, I really wouldn't worry.
I had A breasts until I got pregnant and had my baby. Now I have D breasts. Anything can happen.
Breasts are only good to men for two reasons:
1) we luv titty f***ing
2) they can be used a lot in sex