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So I spent about and hour typing a big story detailing a 10 months relationship i had last year with a 13 year old but ...

"The story is too long, please keep in under 3000 characters"

So that's too bad. I guess I'll give the condensed version

Met 13 year old, met family, really liked, feel in love, went for it, things seemed perfect, parents found out, freak out, couldn't see each other, got real sad, tried to explain, too hard, broke up, month passes, got back together, 7 months of fighting with parents, believed this was the one, dumped and replaced by another guy in 1 day, feel like biggest moron ever, forced to accept things weren't quite what i thought and move on, several months pass, girl back in life, starts pouring heart out about missing me, old feelings resurfacing, find out she actaully cheated on me for a while when we were together, feel stupid more, feel naive.

I would have liked to have posted the longer, much more in depth version...i'm drained from writing it and now you're left with this half assed pile of crap.

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  • sgbslp
    14 years ago

    Jail awaits you.

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  • DearWorld
    13 years ago

    Just have sex with her and get her pregnant, that way she can't get rid of you!

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    • SomethingIsWrong
      13 years ago

      But the supreme court sure could have!

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    • everlily76
      13 years ago

      what kind of sick perv r u?

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  • Solimorphic
    14 years ago

    Her parents are pissed.

    You should be happy you aren't sitting in jail.

    I like the young ones, too. The age of consent in PA is 16.

    Too much risk here for you. Lots of the young ones like older guys anyway, if he presents himself well. Find another a few years older. I know you can. Sounds like trite advise, but what are the options?

    Normal to feel this way, you are a Man.

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  • underager
    12 years ago

    Innocent kid, my ass!
    This little whore was screwing other guys when she was with you???
    You're well rid of the slut!!!!

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  • anarchy-is-glory
    12 years ago

    Why are you even asking? Isn't obvious that you are going to get answers like: you are a pedophile!, pervert!, or idiots saying: fuck that bitch(lol).
    You know what to do bro. This relationship is not even in your side. You won't win. She is inmature as you pointed out that she CHEATED on you, You are going to get beat up by someone in her family, if you have coitus with her you will go to prison. And above that I'm going to tell you something that happened to one of my childhood friends.

    He was 19 when he met a 14 year old girl, a really hot girl for her age, breast of a 17 year old, face like an angel and a perfect ass.
    He on the other side, is a great guy, inmature for his age but took his job and college seriously. He was studying to become an odontologist and worked fixing computers. Well, he used to tell us that he never had sex with her but had oral sex.

    Well, after sometime, she cheated on him. He got really mad and broke up with her. She threatened him to tell her parents that he raped her so they got back together, she cheated on him again, he left her again, she told her best friend to punch her so she could get a black eye, she told her parents, they called the police, he got his ass kicked by her family's men, and tadaa! Guess who is doing 4 years in jail? No right for proof, no nothing!

    At least after three years they let him go home for his good behavior. He had a hard time finding a job, he quit going to college to work and pay the bail.

    Think about it. My friend lost everything, even his chance to be an odontologist. You could loose everything too.

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    • SomethingIsWrong
      12 years ago

      Whoa, that's is power fucked up. Poor guy. That girl's a real pyschopath. I almost completely forgot I put this online. It's been a while. Thanks for sharing the story. And yeah, I ignore all the ignorant and judgmental comments I get, that parts no biggie. This girls a little fucked up as are we all, but shes not evil...what that chick did to your friend is totally fucking rotten. I am happy to announce I did not lose everything, only the respect of a few close minded people (but I don't need that anyway) ...well, that an some emotional stability, but it's coming back... I think. It's a strange position to find oneself in. It's the most emotionally invested I had ever been in a person by a long shot, and probably the most i'll ever be. It's been pretty much over with for a few years but it still find its way into my thoughts daily...and I have no idea what I could say I learned from any of it except love sure is blinding, and life can sure throw you some curve balls.

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  • Ramit10
    13 years ago

    dude she is 13 she doesnt know what she wants move on. date someone your own age you know your pretty much considered a pedofile

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  • everlily76
    13 years ago

    WTF? my little sister is 13. if a man of 23 started dating her my older brother would kick his head in. I would kick his head in! and im a 5ft 5 female. Listen, your 23 she's 13. BIG AGE DIFFERENCE HERE! you have to find someone your own age or you could end up in jail for a looong time my friend. please dont get into trouble for something that is to put it shortly, is sick and TOTALLY ILLEGAL!

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    you should post what fitted and post rest as comment... anyway after finding all that out I would say... what do you expect from a13 year old? move on with your life. make better choices in the future

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  • sadtruth
    13 years ago

    Putting age aside, seems like she's alot of headache for someone who will probally cheat on you again and break your heart over & over?!

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  • JohnnyCCFC
    13 years ago

    So.......You feel upset that you can't be sith a kid? Think of the children oh wait don't!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ........Dogg

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  • TheTodd11
    13 years ago

    Damn she was a slut,
    Dude if she was cheating on you at 13 what makes you think you will have a lasting life long journey with this girl who is still in 8th grade....
    Move on and be thankful you're not locked up for 3-5; then put on the pedophile list after you get out which mean you can’t even be near any child under the age of 18 (not that you should want to), Im just saying no longer able to become a teacher or mentor whatever im just saying

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    • SomethingIsWrong
      13 years ago

      Yeah...she really was, and still is. I didn't know that at all though. She was and also still is a -really- convincing liar...She didn't dress or act or look provocative or promiscuous...and our relationships wasn't really about that stuff either...so it was quite the surprise.

      Not the girl I thought is basically all it comes down to.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    What more did you need to write other than you're 23, she's 13? Do you not see how inappropriate that is, and that all the discord revolves around that essential problem? Date a girl your own age.

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    • SomethingIsWrong
      13 years ago

      I see how inappropriate it can appear to someone doesn't attempt to understand and focuses on an essentially insignificant detail. My discord revolved around peoples lack of trust and understand of the situation, not the age gap itself. I'll date who ever I feel is going to make me happy.

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      • everlily76
        13 years ago

        wait until shes at least 18 then she wont be a minor and u wont get ur sorry butt thrown behind bars. you may not want to wait tht long but you see where im going dont you?

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      • everlily76
        13 years ago

        listen, you have to realise tht theres 10 year age difference and she is still in school and has just become a teen. its not fair tht she should be this commited to someone over 18 and well out of school (or maybe not even in uni anymore), if this was my little sister (who is 13) Me, my older brother and ALL my family would kick your sorry backside to timbucktoo and back. But since its not my sister, I guess I cant be this judgemental but I dont really blame the family tho. But just the title of your story speaks volumes in my book and you should really think about this long and hard and think of the pressure you were (or are I dont know) putting on her to commit to you. She couldnt have really cheated on you, shes only 13. last time I checked the only kind of realationship a girl of that age could have is the holding hands, chatting more to this guy than she does to other boys kind of realationship not real CHEATING. she cant commit at 13. no wonder she cheated.

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  • randomjelly
    14 years ago

    You're more disgusting than pedobear. Stay away from babies before some dad snaps your neck!

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    • SomethingIsWrong
      13 years ago

      Thats sound well thought out advice. I'll take that into consideration if i plan on kidnapping and/or raping any babies. :)

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  • BeautifulBaller
    14 years ago

    If I was her mom you'd be a dead man!! Just saying!!!

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  • Lady.Pam
    14 years ago

    You are disgusting, I don't see why there are men like you.. Ugh, im so sick of it. But I guess it's normal... Still disgusting!

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  • tygeronherbed
    14 years ago

    shes 13
    shes a CHILD
    you are 23
    you are a MAN
    MEN shouldnt date CHILDREN
    so go find yourself a WOMAN
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    wait for this little CHILD to grow up.

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  • Senken
    14 years ago

    sounds just like a story a guy I know online wrote.

    lololololololol

    your a pedophile. grow some balls masturbate to loli, find a girl your age.

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    • SomethingIsWrong
      13 years ago

      What?

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  • olivia82
    14 years ago

    technically you are a petaphile ... meet someone your own age

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    • SomethingIsWrong
      13 years ago

      Actually, i'm technically NOT a "petaphile" as that's not even a word. But lets assume you meant pedophile. Wikipedia describes Pedophilia as follows

      pedophilia is a psychiatric disorder in adults or late adolescents characterized by a primary or exclusive sexual interest in --prepubescent children--

      awwww sorry to disappoint you but this girl was one big tittied hot ass little bitch who was also rather ahead of the curve mentally...pssst...she was adolescent (some people mature faster than others)

      And, your ignorant statement is based on very little information. You have no idea of my dating history before AND after this girl. For all you know I have only ever dated girls around my own age with this exception and you have no insight as to the sexual nature of the relationship I had with this girl. For all you know it could have been based primarily on emotional impulses and not sexual ones. Any ideas you concoct in your moron head are only assumptions. I won't waste my time explaining my life story to the fuckheaded presumptuous likes of you but I can fully defend myself and say that technically no matter how you slice it, i'm not a pedophile. And legally i'm also not, either. But ... he tried folks. Let's give him a hand for that :)

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  • TheIncorrigible
    14 years ago

    You need to ring this loli as soon as possible and have a big DMC (Deep Meaningful Conversation).
    Once you've explained your side, allow her to put forward hers, and then reach a decision based on discussion and understanding.
    On no account should you let her parents or your peers influence your mutual decision. It is not nice having to go against the majority, but sometimes it is necessary. True love has no boundaries.

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  • brutalchick420
    14 years ago

    Its not strange at all, I've been in this situation before, well sort of.

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  • mariemarie1
    14 years ago

    mmm...I don't think this is too strange. I would say you matured faster than her. You and her are in two different places in your lives. Until she's ready to grow up, you should occupy your time with someone else.

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  • Hiljaisen_susi
    14 years ago

    At 13 years old, she is in no way mature enough to handle an adult relationship. If you really care about her that much then you need to wait for her to grow up a little (and reach legal age!)

    Her parents are also more likely to be understanding with your relationship if she is older as age differents seem to matter less the older you get. Not to mention that they will have known you for longer and will hopefully respect the fact that you waited.

    Alternatively, it may be better to move on and find someone else.

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