(18+) how do you stretch for having an easy anal as beginner?

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I got two buttplugs, I can carry the very small one but get uncomfortable wearing it a longer time like only 10mins, this really does not stretch anything. I only have one size more and this is already too much and hurts. Do you people recommend anything to have a non-hurting way to stretch yout butthole for having anal? ;_;
Also, my butt is pretty sensitive. If i stick already a too big plug which is not even that big, it can already bleed a little >.<

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  • leggs91200
    4 years ago

    There is an EXPERT on here about cramming things in his slam-hole.

    His name starts with a D and hopefully he will chime in cause he knows more about this than anyone should.

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    • Clunk42
      4 years ago

      Yeah, like that time with the screwdriver...

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      • d0esnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        It was a learning experience. Great for building character.

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      • Shiki
        4 years ago

        I would never consider to take something in my butt like a screwdriver °-°'

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        • Clunk42
          4 years ago

          He needs to tell you that one. That was a great story.

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          • leggs91200
            4 years ago

            No, just no.

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          • Shiki
            4 years ago

            I am not sure about that xD

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    • Anoverthinker
      4 years ago

      Lol 🤣 'EXPERT', 'knows more about this than anyone should' 🤣 so tru though

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      • d0esnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        Why is it bad to have extensive knowledge of butt stuff? This is important shit man.

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    • Mammal-lover
      4 years ago

      Legs me and you know way more about anal than that prick.

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Hmmm. Finally I can write my PHD thesis.

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    • Shiki
      4 years ago

      Alright xD

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Okay so apparently I'm the "expert" on this... and I mean I'll take it. I have done lots of butt stuff.

    Butt plugs are the key to getting your bumhole used to insertion. The sphincter muscle will take a while to get used to being lengthened so at first it's normal to feel substantial discomfort. The problem with some butt plugs and the transfer to anal sex is that many plugs have the wrong shape.

    Most butt plugs have an hourglass type shape where its thick and then thin and then thick. This makes it so the part of the plug that's actually stretching your anus is very thin and it's difficult to get the plug in but easy to keep it there because the wide part is inside your colon. Plugs like this are great for other things and easier to wear longer but not as good at training for anal because your actual sphincter doesn't get to work on endurance. It's just a quick stretch to get it in and then you can relax. So what you ideally need is plugs with more of a flat shape, similar to what a dick would be. A very good alternative to this is to just insert a flared plug repeatedly so that the amount of stretching on your sphincter is increased.

    Inflatable plugs work great for this as well I've heard but to be fair, I have never used one.

    Some kind of vibrator or dildo can work depending on the kind and they don't have that tapered end which is what we want.

    An enema beforehand will also help loosen things up and make anal easier.

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    • Shiki
      4 years ago

      Thank you for your work and time to explain it to me. I will keep it in mind ~

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      • d0esnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        Well it's one thing I'm very passionate about lol. Happy anal!

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  • Nikclaire
    4 years ago

    Just get a graduated cone. Cheap, easy, you can control to your comfort level. You can spend a fortune on plugs and other toys but a cone does the trick.

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    • Shiki
      4 years ago

      Thanks, I will try to convince him to buy such if i find a good one for myself xD what kind of cone do you recommend since there are many different forms and such

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      • Nikclaire
        4 years ago

        Mine has rounded ridges and allows some relief as you go further down. You don't want one that's too deep either the shorter the better. Remember you are just looking to widen your butt, I don't enjoy something poking at my anal wall or whatever it's called. Haha.

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Link? Never tried this but I like the idea except maybe sounds a little painful or awkward.

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      • Nikclaire
        4 years ago

        That's the best part, it's not painful since you control the depth. It IS a little awkward but nothing ventured nothing gained.

        Sorry I dont have a good link. I got mine at a sex shop and the ones online don't look nearly as good. Amazon has one but its proportions and ridges are whacked out.

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        • d0esnormalmatter
          4 years ago

          See I don't get excatly how it's supposed to work. Is it basically a cone that you shove in your ass till you feel a stretch? I feel like it wouldn't be as good because it doesn't stay in place but I've never tried one.

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          • Nikclaire
            4 years ago

            Yeah it's not something you keep in. It's a trainer.

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            • Mammal-lover
              4 years ago

              Those things are awesome. For me it was the depth that always got me.

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  • WeirdGuyFr0mTheSouth
    4 years ago

    Get the desensitizing lube. It has lidocaine in it. Works wonders for my wife. Before you let a man stick it you might wanna do a few enemas or it's more likely to get messy.

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    • Shiki
      4 years ago

      Lube really does not help that much.. it does help, but he does bot come far, it feels like he is pressing his dick again and again against a wall xD

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      • Mammal-lover
        4 years ago

        He specifically stated desensitizing.

        Then theres the fact of warm up. Diffrent materials. How much of a tip it has. Theres manh diffrent aspects to butt plugs

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        • Shiki
          4 years ago

          Oh ok. But do I have to worry it could hurt afterwards when the effect goes less? :/
          And do i still feel the good thing about it?

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          • Mammal-lover
            4 years ago

            See I'm not a bitch and neither is my ass. So ive never had these problems even after alot of stretching without doing kegel excersizes just thinning that shit out. I dont yet why you people have such a hard Time or why you cant just google this shit. Theres a million fucking guides online. Read one.

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            • Shiki
              4 years ago

              I already tried this but i thought i could get some better advise of actually people with experience since the internet did not help that much -_-

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            • Nikclaire
              4 years ago

              Some people prefer to discuss things rather than just reading a guide.

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      • WeirdGuyFr0mTheSouth
        4 years ago

        I didnt recommend regular lube. I said try desensitizing lube. It has lidocaine in it which numbs your colon.

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        • d0esnormalmatter
          4 years ago

          Link? Have heard of it but never tried it.

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          • WeirdGuyFr0mTheSouth
            4 years ago

            No we used it like 2 days ago and it went great. It didnt take as long to warm up.

            https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B07PRGCVL8/ref=ppx_yo_mob_b_track_package_o1_img?ie=UTF8&psc=1

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            • d0esnormalmatter
              4 years ago

              Looks good man my only concern is that the sensation will be less. What do you think about this?

              My gf and I did anal for the first time right before Christmas break and it was fucking great. She is not loose at all and has minimal pain so do you think this is even necessary? Or would you recommend it even if we don't need it to have pain free anal?

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