Would you rather be...

Option 1 - Successful. You are the best in the world in one field of business & are recognised wherever you go by lots of people. You are wealthy & have a way with the women/men, & could have whomever you desire. You live in your dreamhouse & have fancy cars.

Option 2 - A good person. You are not globally famous but you are loved within your own town. You are known by all as respectable, trustworthy, charitable & you have all the traits of a best friend. You have a wife/husband & are happily married, living in a reasonably large house with no monetary issues.

Option 1 42
Option 2 99
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  • charli.m

    Two. No question.

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  • One...Obviously.

    I can have a career I love to work and gain so much by it. I can also have a way to gain a partner, any partner, so I can build a relationship from that. I wouldn't want to be married as that opens me to getting my things taken from me if they want a divorce.

    I can give more to charity and people if I am rich...

    Option one has more capability for doing good than the second.

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    • shade_ilmaendu

      Hmm.... I was going to choose two but you make a rather good point. Unless I'd have to be a successful douchebag who never gave anything back to the world. That I couldn't abide. I wanna leave this place better than how I found it.

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  • bananaface

    Two, of course. Although, the best outcome would be the one where good people are the successful ones.

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  • Shackleford96

    Option two by a mile!

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  • myownopinions

    Why have so many people chosen option 2? I mean really, what's wrong with being rich, famous, the best in the business, and living in your dream house?

    I think option 1 sounds awesome.

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  • Paradiddle

    I'll be honest. I'd rather have Option 2. Just today, I watched a motivational speech on how to be successful and how bad you have to want it to do that. How you have to make sacrifices and be willing to put in the effort, a truly persuasive video. All my life though, not only do I label myself as introverted, I also don't like the popular lifestyle. When you have some sort of fame, people want to have what you have and know what you're doing. Some want to try to take it away by force, like the voice of Elmo. Sure you'll make a lot of friends easily and will be remembered in high honors but I prefer success on a minor scale.

    Being lesser known but a good friend is more important to me. My version of success is having enough money to afford a stable home yet have a good amount for things like gaming and musical instruments as well as the ability to play them as well as I desire. I know friends who tried to rush success whether it was moving out with a partner or overloaded with academics and caused themselves to move back to their home town and/or induce a lot of stress. I'm already a nice guy, to a fault perhaps, so having just a handful of lucky people who know that is good enough for me. Maybe this outlook is due to my laid back mentality. Maybe I'm lazy. Either way, I can guarantee that I won't be stressed or targeted and guarantee someone a great friend, IF I'm allowed and kept in.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Option 1. With all of that money and all of those unlocked possibilities, I can have the life I want. I could have kids and adopt from foster care and be able to provide them with the best life, help my family, spare money freely to those that need it without worrying about whether I'll need that money tomorrow and retire early. I've noticed in your comment that you did not state that I couldn't have a family or retire early, so given those options, that's exactly what I'd do.

    Part of the reason I'm working now is to be able to provide for my future family and help my own family if I can. Maybe a stranger or friend here and there as well. If I could just have that life handed to me, that'd be fantastic. Option 2 is great, but knowing that my Mom won't languish in poverty should she become unable to work and that my children will be able to pursue their dreams free of the monetary constraint I am dealing with would be absolute paradise.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome

    2 isn't my dream. But it's way better then 1.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers

    option 1 as I am still young but too old to have the lack of experience with responsibility and women that I currently have, plus being a respected psychoanalyst is my dream. I'm sure that after a while though i'll want nothing more than option 2

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  • IrkenInvaderLesley

    Neither. I want Option 3: To remain unfamous, to be finacially independent (But not rich), to remain single, have my closest friends back in my life, have my dog live a long, healthy life, and have my adoptive dad in my life (Don't ask).

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  • LovelyMay

    Option 2. One does not have to be rich to be happy :D

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  • TheGirlWhoStoleHisHat

    I'm very introverted, however I don't think I could stand to have a plebian lifestyle. I think it would mentally scar me to become a clone/sheep of the average world therefore option 1

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  • Kiddles9

    Number two. I don't want to be famous, they get no privacy, I feel bad for them in a sense. I can still be successful, being a good person, respectable, trustworthy, would be who I am as a person which are all great traits. And it says nothing about work, so it leaves that all open for whatever I want. Number two without a shadow of a doubt.

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  • gummy_jr

    Option two. I dont really want a bunch of fancy shit. Just more shit burglars to steal, and more for the wife to take if we get a divorce.

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  • Ghost-of-the-Marlboro-Man

    Rather be a happy smoker.

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  • suckonthis9

    Option 3 - A responsible person. Globally famous, noted, distinguished and eminent, but not renowned, celebrated or illustrious. I have a loving partner. We have an adequate living space, in a sustainable structure, in a sustainable community. We share our structure with others, and we all get along with one another.

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    • dirtybirdy

      You fucked up. Do NOT use -ibles or -ables. Also refrain from -ings and -eds. You will have no partner. If there is a person in this world who could tolerate you they need to be put down inhumanely immediately.

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      • charli.m

        Holy shit that cracked me up :D

        Go on...issue me with a violation, sot9. You know you want to ;)

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        • suckonthis9

          No, I do not want to.
          Why do you want me to?

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          • charli.m

            Oh, so the phrase "Holy shit" is ok?

            Awesome.

            I do get confused about what words are allowed and what aren't, though.

            Maybe you should write some rules about it, or something.

            :)

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            • suckonthis9

              I would much rather you think for yourself, and use sound judgement in character.

              I believe in you, wholly.

              However, if you would really like me to write more rules, I will.

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      • suckonthis9

        Birdbrain.

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        • dirtybirdy

          Thank you very much...fartknocker.

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          • suckonthis9

            You are very welcome, ingnoramus.

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      • anti-hero

        hehe

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  • noid

    Option 2 but no marriage.

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  • miss_belle

    its not a huge comparison...
    it should changed to

    option 1:
    successful, rich, no life, no time for relationship...

    option 2:
    simple happily married life...

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    • I refer you to ItDuz's excellent comment. He has looked at the options & thought about the possibilities of each. Thank you for your comment though.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Two.

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  • kelili

    Two is the best option. The choice was not difficult.

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  • anti-hero

    I will take either one at this point.

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